Wow. People actually criticized you for having your choice of hairstyle? How sad. While I have a small head , I’ve got curly hair with plenty of cow licks . With short hair, those cow licks are untameable and it took too long to style . Long hair for me is , by far, the easiest to maintain. Throw it in a braid or put it in a bun. It’s takes about 5 minutes. Good luck growing out those layers.I took criticism for years for being too old for long hair. I buckled and cut it. I hated it. For the good news, by the time the coronavirus restrictions are lifted, all the hideous layers should be grown out. Short hair is great if you have the face for it - I don't!