Jim, now your are talking just as biased as she is. I did not say her years were lies or nonsense. I believe I was saying that my experience is what I went through and have spoken of. Her experiences are hers and mine are mine. If she can not accept that to be the way it is, too bad. Both of us are telling what we have seen and known. Now I wonder just what I have spoken of is so nasty and bad that my words can not be accepted by some. I know that some hospitals have open ER's, is that wrong? I know that some folks with no money have no insurance and no money. Is that wrong?
Sometimes charges are set quite high so negotiations can take place depending on the situation. Far too much is kept secret and we only get to see our personal charges and insurance coverage of that amount. Most prices would scare me pretty badly. We never see a list of charges in any medical place I have gone to. Only when we get to the low lever tests do we see any fixed prices. Such and such for this, do you want to pay up front or by insurance etc.
One charge I never saw and it was in two hospitals, one in New Mexico and one in Arizona. My brain tumor, suspected in Colorado, sent to New Mexico for the brain tumor operation, then on to Arizona for the radiation follow up. Then back to New Mexico for the follow up meetings and tests. Never heard of the charges asked, nor the amounts paid by the insurance. But did get final notice payments of some amount.