How do you deal with feelings of loneliness?

CaliS said:
A pet, if possible, is an excellent idea - in my opinion. My cat gives me love every day and I drink it up! ♥️♥️♥️
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My dog doesn't fill any loneliness need, because I don't have that. While I like being alone, he does make me feel less alone, and his presence does require me to take responsibility for him, which I actually like. I could manage fine without him, but I'd rather not. Apparently, I do have some need that he fills. Love?? Yeah, probably, but it's not the cartwheels kind of love. It feels more like quiet devotion and friendship.
 
OldOld said:
I get lonely, but life goes on. I try not to get too analytical about my loneliness, while I am on this earth for a few years.
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I don't know that I get lonely in as much that I miss someone to share life's experiences with no matter how big or small. I think a lot of people put up a big front and deny getting lonely to protect their psyche and don't want to admit that they do get lonely at times.
 

TeePee said:
I don't know that I get lonely in as much that I miss someone to share life's experiences with no matter how big or small. I think a lot of people put up a big front and deny getting lonely to protect their psyche and don't want to admit that they do get lonely at times.
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I don't see what your reply has anything to do with my post, and why you quoted my post.
 
I envy people who never get lonely. Summer of 2025 was my lost summer. I was in the hospital and rehab from Memorial Day to Labor Day. I had very few visitors and too much time to think. Most of my friends are gone. I suddenly find myself as a family elder with no kids of my own. I wished many times for someone my age to talk to. While my church is a blessing, i am older than most but younger than the most senior saints. This forum is great except for topic prohibitions, especially in view of recent events.
 
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