Well just got off the phone to my Legal rep... she has now decided to be proactive.. after weeks of watching while HIS lawyers try to spin Ballcocks around me...
She's now taken over and is addressing them directly.. and demanding answers to many questions that have clearly been given to me over the months which are clearly deceptive
She's just read out the mail she's sending to them, a copy of which she will upload to the portal for my records.. and from now on she will deal with them directly . She's fed up to the back teeth with the obvious lies and deceptions.. and his lawyers not even picking him up on those which are clearly deceptive.., the last straw being where on his bank statements he's spending money like water on incidental things..booze..hotels/ airbnb's, flights, .. Amazon shopping, .. take-away food.. day after day after day, month after month.., yet professing poverty and an inability to pay what is by law a 50 % share of assets.. .. ..when as she says in the letter.. her client can't afford to run the heating..
*Phew* relief....