Barneyhill
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My husband died Christmas day 2019. I got past that day and I am slowly learning how to make it on my own.There is one thing left now I want to move out of the home I shared with him for 36 years. To tell you the truth I wanted to move from here 30 years ago but my husband refused to give to go. We moved to this home a year after we were married in 1984. We moved here because his brother and his family lived across the alley from our home.
That was mistake in time My husband and his brother were extremely close they had been this way since their childhood. But in 1986 they purchased an county auction home next door to our home. Neither one of them informed their wives what they were about to do before purchasing this real estate property. They put their heads together and left their wives out of their dreams and plans. Well they brought the house and one week later they had a fight about who should be the sole owner. These two men stopped speaking to each other for 14 years. Sometimes things would get pretty heated between them
My brother in law once aimed a rifle at my husband yes they were fighting over the old auction house, My brother -in- law told me years later the rifle was loaded and he pulled the trigger but it malfunctioned and the rifle didn't fire. He added "God was watching over my husband that day" Our family attorney talked to my husband and told him he needed to move away from the immediate vicinity of his brother he even drove my husband to look at a property that he owned, his sideline was real estate also.
My husband said he wasn't leaving no way would he leave. Finally about the year 2000 my husband's father passed away and he and his brother made up at their father's funeral. But looking back at the years they fought together is indeed kind of hard it wasn't pretty rough especially when my brother-in- law came to our street and stirred up trouble by telling our neighbors about the quarrel he had with his brother. Our neighbors took sides with him and we were harrassed by them because of my brother-in laws gossip.
In time these two guys became friends again but I can't help remembering the period when they wern't speaking and all the hardships it caused both families it was very bad and on several occasions the poilce had to intervene when they fought.
Now that my husband is gone. I feel I have to leave this home and move a good distance it's too many bad memories and what makes it worse is looking out my kitchen window and seeing my brother-in law's home across the alley. My brother in law died in June 2017 and his wife passed New Years Day 2004. My brother -in laws daughters still carry a grudge about the time my husband and his brother weren't speaking. You see I am the one who just married into their family my husband was blood kin to them so they feel I don't count and they don't have to be kind to me.
I am anxious to leave the house is paid off and I want to turn it into a rental property so it come be an extra source of income for me.
Do you think I am doing making the right move?
That was mistake in time My husband and his brother were extremely close they had been this way since their childhood. But in 1986 they purchased an county auction home next door to our home. Neither one of them informed their wives what they were about to do before purchasing this real estate property. They put their heads together and left their wives out of their dreams and plans. Well they brought the house and one week later they had a fight about who should be the sole owner. These two men stopped speaking to each other for 14 years. Sometimes things would get pretty heated between them
My brother in law once aimed a rifle at my husband yes they were fighting over the old auction house, My brother -in- law told me years later the rifle was loaded and he pulled the trigger but it malfunctioned and the rifle didn't fire. He added "God was watching over my husband that day" Our family attorney talked to my husband and told him he needed to move away from the immediate vicinity of his brother he even drove my husband to look at a property that he owned, his sideline was real estate also.
My husband said he wasn't leaving no way would he leave. Finally about the year 2000 my husband's father passed away and he and his brother made up at their father's funeral. But looking back at the years they fought together is indeed kind of hard it wasn't pretty rough especially when my brother-in- law came to our street and stirred up trouble by telling our neighbors about the quarrel he had with his brother. Our neighbors took sides with him and we were harrassed by them because of my brother-in laws gossip.
In time these two guys became friends again but I can't help remembering the period when they wern't speaking and all the hardships it caused both families it was very bad and on several occasions the poilce had to intervene when they fought.
Now that my husband is gone. I feel I have to leave this home and move a good distance it's too many bad memories and what makes it worse is looking out my kitchen window and seeing my brother-in law's home across the alley. My brother in law died in June 2017 and his wife passed New Years Day 2004. My brother -in laws daughters still carry a grudge about the time my husband and his brother weren't speaking. You see I am the one who just married into their family my husband was blood kin to them so they feel I don't count and they don't have to be kind to me.
I am anxious to leave the house is paid off and I want to turn it into a rental property so it come be an extra source of income for me.
Do you think I am doing making the right move?