I grew a backbone!

GeorgiaXplant

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Last week I sent the usual reminder to a client that I'd be there on Wednesday between 10 and 1030. This particular client almost always replies that she won't be "ready" to have her house cleaned so "early" and asks me to come at 11 or 12 or has even said that she'd text me when it was "convenient" and she was "ready" for me. It has happened a time or two (or three or more!) that around 1 or 2 in the afternoon, she'd text and tell me not to come at all and ask to be rescheduled. In the past three years, she's cancelled four times the morning of her scheduled day and another four times has kept me waiting until early afternoon, then told me not to come and to reschedule her. This time? She "forgot". Forgot the cleaning lady is coming when there are three kids and two adults living there, both adults work outside the home, and the cleaning lady is only there every two weeks? Forgot?

Well. I try really hard to accommodate my clients, and on two occasions when she let me know early enough, I've called the next day's clients and asked if they'd be willing to trade days with her. On two other occasions, I happened to have a day off the very next day so cleaned for her then instead. The other times, I've just told her that didn't have any other time and would just have to skip it until the next scheduled day.

The reason for starting between 10 and 1030 was so that I could be done and out of the way when her kids got home from school. Not too long ago, I told her that it's next to impossible to find another day to clean for her and that to please give me as much notice as possible so that I could call one of the (long!) list of people who have asked me to clean for them (and not lose a day's pay).

I might as well have talked to a fencepost because she simply doesn't get it. At 230 on Wednesday morning her husband sent me an odd and rambling text apropos to nothing much at all and finished up by saying not to come on Wednesday and to come on Thursday instead. You read that right. He texted me at a 230 in the morning. Huh?

I waited until about 8 am and sent a text back telling him that I didn't have another day available for two weeks and that after so many cancellations and requests to be rescheduled at the last minute, I felt it only fair to charge a cancellation fee of half the amount it usually cost to clean for them.

Other independent cleaning ladies and professional cleaning services charge a cancellation fee if they don't get 24 hours' notice. Friends and family have been badgering me for years to charge a cancellation fee and to quit being "nice"...and clients will no longer take advantage of me.

It has happened that a client has had a family emergency, a death in the family, texts me from the ER where they're waiting to be seen by a doctor...in those cases of course I wouldn't charge them. Stuff happens. It even happened to me once: I got sick. Except for that one time, I've been as dependable as church on Sunday.

I stuck to my guns. I expected to be paid a cancellation fee. I got the cancellation fee (in cash!), but they were both highly indignant and could not understand why I'd do such a thing. After all, they said, they'd been "good and reliable clients" for more than three years. Reliable? And he didn't appreciate being woken up via text at 8 am.

She sent me an email that was not very nice. I emailed her back and told her that I was sorry she felt that way and that I wouldn't feel comfortable working for them any longer.

Sometimes even I can stand up for myself! Not only got the cancellation fee but now I have every other Wednesday off. Who says I have to be "nice" ALL of the time? Nice cleaning fairies finish last. LOL And I'm not going to fill that day with a new client. Heck. I'm old. A day off in the middle of the week? Priceless!
 
Good for you Georgia, I use to clean house for a living when I had kids in school. I found it good but hard work. I too had to learn to stick up for myself. I also figured out that for a good housekeeper, there were more than enough clients for me. I found out that there were just as many clean homes that needed cleaning as filthy ones, and I replaced the filthy homes with cleaner ones. I found that the cleaner people respected me more than people that just trashed their homes between my appointments. :yougogirl:
 
Whew! After I posted I thought maybe I'd get flamed for being unreasonable:(

This particular client's house was the hardest one I had, and I finally figured out why: between the time I left on a Wednesday afternoon and turned up again two weeks later, they didn't clean. Anything. That would explain why they'd say their house wasn't "ready" to be cleaned! They had to pick up clutter, trash, dirty clothes, dirty dishes and whatever all else they'd left lying around for two weeks. Funny thing is that it was also the smallest house I had. I've got a couple of houses that are more than 4000 sf that can be cleaned in less time than it took for that little house.

The homeowners of the big houses? They're all very considerate and, thankfully, very tidy. The "not ready" clients? They're in the process of buying a bigger house nearby. All that would have meant for me would be longer delays and more dirt. LOL

So. In the past couple of months, I've unloaded the client with the pit bull that wanted me for its mid-morning snack and the client who's house was never "ready".

And...another one of my clients got word from one of my neighbors that I love dogs and have clients who've had me dog sit for them. They're going on a three-day weekend in May and asked me to dog sit. Yippee. If all goes well (no reason why it shouldn't), they have two more three-day weekend trips coming up this summer. More Yippee.

So far I've got three dog sitting gigs scheduled. The one I just mentioned for three days in May, one for five days early in June and one for eight days later in June. Woohoo and stuff:D

It's nice to be paid to do something I like doing. I like money...the nice green color, the nice green feel and the nice green way it spends (and sometimes the nice green way it saves).
 
Yes it does, Ina. But I gotta be careful with that jig stuff...don't want to break any bones. Can't have anything getting in the way of my appointed rounds:D Love *my* dogs.
 
Bravo Georgia! :applause2: You were fair enough and handled everything very well, kudos! You should charge for cancelling just to protect yourself from people like this who take advantage. Did they really think you were going to put your life on hold waiting by the phone for them to decide if and when they wanted you there?? :rolleyes: Enjoy your day off now, and good that you just separated yourself from this aggravation, life is too short really! Doggie sitting sounds more like something I would prefer, not such hard work as cleaning for sure, have fun with it whenever you can! :cool:
 
Great for you, Georgia! :encouragement:

It's the old 80/20 rule - 20% of your clients will cause you 80% of your headaches. It seems you've managed to reduce that percentage a bit. ;)
 
Gee, Phil, I hadn't heard that one before. Now that I think about it, I've been winnowing my client list here and there and finally have it down to 10. Then I unloaded the pit-bull house and now the not-ready house. The client list is down to very manageable eight. So I got rid of the 20% that caused 80% of the headaches. I'm gonna keep it at eight. No new clients! All I have to do is learn to say no:rolleyes:
 
I'm amazed that you put up with it for so long.
I had a cleaning lady for many years when I was working full time but I would never have messed her around.
She came every other Wednesday, at her convenience. I wasn't even at home at the time.
 
Pappy, that doesn't look like a "little" jig to me:rolleyes: My doc says I have the bones of a 30-year-old, but I think that jig might be pushing it just a tad.

Nein, nyet, non.........
 
Georgia Georgia I have you on my mind.

Well done.
Has I always say.
Do not let the Ba++++ds Get you down.:eek:nthego:
 
No means NO. Way to go!

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About that backbone...

So I'm not going to replace that client, right? I like the clients I have now, right?

Well, it seems that a really nice young couple in the neighborhood (just a block away, as a matter of fact) work so many hours that they just can't keep up. They sent me a PM on our HOA Facebook page and asked could I/would I help. I agreed that I'd at least come over and have a look at the house so I did. They seem to be pretty tidy. No kids yet. Two great dogs.

And apparently, I'm just one of those people who can't say no (although I have practiced, honest!). And apparently I don't REALLY like that extra day off in the middle of the week.

I said I'd do it.

But next summer? I'm going to summer camp! I am. I found a summer camp for adults and I'm going to go for a week and learn...wait for it...basket weaving. Yes. Basket weaving.
 
Ina, I couldn't begin to explain about summer camps for adults. I just Googled "adult summer camps" and a bunch popped up. Don't know where I got a wild hair that suggested there even is such a thing! But there is, and dammit! I'm gonna go. I requested a catalog by mail (their on-line catalog was too hard to read) so I'll know more about them when I get it. The one that interested me is in North Carolina, just up I75 a piece, easy drive. I wanna stay in a cabin with the other "kids". I wonder if we'll get to sit around a campfire in the evenings and sing songs and get up early in the morning for a dip in the lake and stuff. If there is a lake! Hope we don't have cabin inspections every day like we did at scout camp.
 
Georgia, I never been to any summer camp, whether for the young or the elders. When you get your catalogue, tells us about it. Sounds interesting, I love learning new crafts.:happy::hatlaugh1::bowknot:
 
Good for you Georgia, at least you're spending that day in a home that you like, working for folks who won't take advantage. Summer camp sounds like a fun idea, hope you go and share the experience with us! :cool2:
 
If I could afford it, I'd be going this summer, but it's something that has to be planned for and saved for. I can hardly wait! Or as we say in the South, I can't hardly wait:D
 
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