Barneyhill
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I have a stubborn husband very stubborn he isn't going anywhere. He was born and raised in a small town in Mississippi and he and his family were extremely poor. He had 5 other brothers. when they grew up they wanted a better way of life. Four of them including my husband headed up north. The four of them ended up as laborers in the local steel millSo, Barney, what's keeping you in Gary, Indiana? Why can't you move? Why is there the connect in your mind between your present situation and spanking neighborhood children in the past? Or, are you just into spanking?
They did up moving up the economic bracket to a much better way of life. All of these are stuck here you can't get them to leave.
May I make a correction my husband's youngest brother passed away 2 years ago, So that leaves 3 stubborn men who refuse to go they all are retired and I believe they would fare better back in Mississippi as far as peace of mind and safer living conditions and being around warm and friendly people once more. They refuse to go anywhere outside of Gary.
Only a psychologist could give a logical explanation of why they choose to stay in city that is riddled with crime and falling apart in everyway and inhabited by some of the meanest people you find anywhere in America.
I have my own theory. My husband and his brothers were absolutely poor in Mississippi. They had no running inside water their of home they had to pump their water on the outside, No electricity. No inside bathroom. Their father raised pigs and chickens on their property so there was a little food. At least they didn't starve. For Christmas they didn't get toys just a few pieces of fruit.
They all focused on school worked hard in their studies. And school was a way out for all of them.
They moved north and as I said entered the steel mills. They worked hard and purchased nice homes and never had to experienced again the poverty that afflicted them in Mississippi. I see the stubbornness in my husband about re-locating from Gary connected someway to their origins in the south. He has an illogical loyalty to this city. He sees nothing that wrong here. He is serious. No matter about the high crime rate. no matter about the city's crumbling state and no matter how bad the disposition of people here to him everything is o.k.
Now do you understand the position I am in?
If changed he mind and wanted to leave it would just a matter of a few months and we would out of here
I hope you see what I mean now.
I never focused on children needed a extra hand in disciplining by spanking until I lived here long enough to realize these kids are off the charts when it comes to bad attitudes and bad behavior. They aren't being steered right in their homes the worst of them are usually the product of a teen mom and the dad is missing from their lives to help them grow into well adjusted children.
Whoever you are please believe I never seen children this terrible until I moved here. And that is the truth. you want an example? 5 blocks from my home was the home of my best friend she told me there was an elderly couple on her block who began exercising each day by taking a stroll around the block it didn't last long because the kids on the street didn't like seeing them so they threw rocks at them and drove them back into their home. And they did the same to a middle aged plus size lady who started walking to lose a few pounds. They pelted her with rocks and drove her off the sidewalks.
Now I hope you see why I feel the way I do about this city
Thanks for taking time to read this.
Why am I into spanking kids and trying to discipline because my friend these are the most horrific children I have known rude so vulgar there is no other way to describe the children I have encountered since my stay in Gary. back when I was child the kind of behavior I have witnessed on my street and throughout Gary would have never been allowed when I was growing up. I am extending my opinion about gary Kids beyond my street,
maybe I seem mean about how I feel about them but