I speak MY truth

The truth can change from one person to the next. The guy who says cilantro tastes like soap is speaking his truth. The guy who says cilantro is needed to make a decent salsa is speaking his truth. Both are telling us their "truth".
What they are really saying is "In my opinion" Cilantro tastes like soap and "In my opinion" Cilantro is needed to make a decent salsa.
They are stating their opinion, not absolute truth. (In my opinion of course)
 
Interesting concept: In the 1961 Robert Heinlein novel, Stranger in a Strange World, there are "Fair Witnesses", people who have been trained and certified to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. They are the last word in court cases, etc. They cannot lie.

An example given was that if you asked a Fair Witness what color a house was, he'd answer "white" after walking around and verifying that all four walls were white. However, if he walked away and you asked him later what color the house was, he wouldn't swear it was white, because someone might have painted it since he last saw it.

Other than that, "true" is in the eye of the beholder. Children (and too many adults) have the ability to convince themselves that something is "true".

That reminds me of a cute little story: A little boy ran into the house and breathlessly told him mom that there was a lion in the backyard. "A lion?", asked his mother, "Really? A lion? Don't you think it's just the neighbor's big dog?"

"No, really, Mom, it's a lion!"

The mother says, "Now, we've talked about lying and how you need to tell the truth at all times. I want you to go upstairs to your room, think about this a while and talk to God about telling the truth."

The little boy goes upstairs and comes down a little while later.

"Did you have a talk with God?" asked the mother.

"Yes I did. And He said He thought it was a lion at first, too!"
 
Anybody else remember the Rowan & Martin Laugh-In show on TV? It was the first time most of us saw Lily Tomlin. She was not only that Ernestine character (the telephone operator), she also played a 5-year-old kid named Edith Ann who told some pretty wild stories that always ended with "And that's the truth!"
 
Considering the conversations I have been in or overheard this phrase used
I would say it is a way of sending out a hint or warning of
"I will not waver, I will not listen to your side,
I will not concede to being wrong"

That is my "opinion" of about 85% of conversations I have heard or read.
😐That is NOT what we mean to say!
What we, or at least I, mean to say is that the foregoing is merely my opinion ie not to be taken as any sort of settled answer to a question.
 
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😐That is NOT what we mean. to say!
What we, or at least I, mean to say is that the foregoing is merely my opinion ie not to be taken as any sort of settled answer to a question.
I don't think I referred to anyone from SF in that post and if anyone here has posted "My Truth" I have not seen it.
I was speaking of conversations and texts from family and friends. I hope that helps in some way.
 
Coincidentally i was thinking a lot about the word truth just a few ways ago. Several comments here have been similar to what i was thinking particularly in comparing it with the the word fact or factual. @PeppermintPatty came very close to my conclusions about it all.

But i would add all facts are true because they are objectively verifiable (which is why we need to fact check news and individual statements that upset us) but not all truths rise to the level of facts because human beings experience the same events and behaviors of others differently. It happens in families and societies. For me, what actually happened is factual, but the way i think and feel about it is my truth.

What is more, not all human experiences are objectively verifiable. Consider that medical science with all the tech and advances still cannot objectively measure pain, the self report scale is very subjective. Tho it's safe to think someone screaming wordlessly from certain movements will probably report in the 9-10 range, it's a good thing they have all the scans and equipment because another person with the same injury may self report at 5-6 level pain because they do not feel it as intensely!

Consider that the same may be said of emotional pain. But that could be fodder for several other threads tho related to the topic of individual 'truths'.
 
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