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Phoenix said:
There's nothing offensive about this thread. And I agree with Shali on the points she made. If a person finds this post offensive, they don't have to read it. The world has gone nuts, and any time we can find a way to let off a little steam in a harmless way, we should take advantage of it. I've never understood why it's okay for tv shows to show someone murdering someone, but it's not okay to show people having sex. For crying out loud. That's backwards. We all know about sex. We all know some funny things that happen during the process of getting it on or trying to. There are those of us women who love the male anatomy and everything it can do for us. There are some of guys who enjoy the female anatomy for similar reasons. Let's drink a toast to the fun of it all.
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There may not be anything offensive to you. It is offensive to me. It started out mentioning some hypothetical woman as a sex object (the poster has posted before he doesn't even "have" a woman right now anyway so she must be hypothetical). Then other guys chimed in making comments on the same theme. Showing absolutely no respect for women whatsoever. Yes. That offends me. Some of these guys can be funny on other threads, then one of them -- who never plays any other games here -- makes some sexist comment, and other guys join in. And you women think it's funny.

Guess you have no self-respect, huh, girls?

That's why women have been seen as sex objects for so long. They think it's funny. Like those here who call their own breasts boobs, and don't see what a put-down that is.

I just don't get you people. That's why I quit welcoming the new people who come here thinking this is a great community.
 
There is a difference between sexism/objectification and fun. For thirty years I have counseled sexually abused boys, girls, men, and women. Dignity means different things to different people. No one person is the

arbiter for all. Where mutual respect exists, words such as boobs are simply amusing to many. No one is obligated to use such terminology if it makes them uncomfortable, but to label us "girls" as lacking in self respect is judgemental in the extreme. I

have been here for almost a year and a half, these men being so heavily critiqued, are my friends. They hold my affection and respect. There is an easygoing camaraderie amongst many of us on this site, so necessary when much of the world is currently

locked in such uncertainty and strife. Play, laughter, silliness, all these things provide balance. This is a good thing. We are a disparate bunch on this forum, different nationalities, genders, ages, beliefs, personalities. Cooperation/coexistence is only

achieved through tolerance, a willingness to turn the other cheek, rather than impose our sense of what is appropriate on everyone else. We all have our sensitivities, subjects we find distressing. Fortunately, one can avoid such threads without

ruining them for people who enjoy them. Some of us love robust debate, yet do not take such differences of opinion
personally. This too is healthy. I am sorry if some "don't get us." Perhaps individuals who hold rigid codes around their

perception of propriety would be happier in a more structured, staid environment, where they can enjoy the company of like minded people. No one member is ever going to set the tone for what this forum "should be," that would be supremely authoritarian. Our admin/moderator would never stand for it, rightly so.
 
fureverywhere said:
I toadly agree...youngin' s think when you turn fifty or sixty...crap you play bingo and gradually die off...old people getting busy or even having desire is beyond what they want to imagine. N' really that is too bad. We can take our time and don't have to worry about "one on the way"...really we can find our best years;)
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Does this mean I can stop playing bingo and get back to what I really enjoy???? Thank, gawd! I hate bingo!
 
Phoenix said:
There's nothing offensive about this thread. And I agree with Shali on the points she made. If a person finds this post offensive, they don't have to read it. The world has gone nuts, and any time we can find a way to let off a little steam in a harmless way, we should take advantage of it. I've never understood why it's okay for tv shows to show someone murdering someone, but it's not okay to show people having sex. For crying out loud. That's backwards. We all know about sex. We all know some funny things that happen during the process of getting it on or trying to. There are those of us women who love the male anatomy and everything it can do for us. There are some of guys who enjoy the female anatomy for similar reasons. Let's drink a toast to the fun of it all.
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Like just about everything else in life good sex requires a sense of humour.
 
Hell if I had a 4 hr. erection I wouldn't be able use the ceiling fan over the bed while reclining on my back.

thump, ouch.....thump, ouch.....thump, ouch.
 
Guitarist said:
There may not be anything offensive to you. It is offensive to me. It started out mentioning some hypothetical woman as a sex object (the poster has posted before he doesn't even "have" a woman right now anyway so she must be hypothetical). Then other guys chimed in making comments on the same theme. Showing absolutely no respect for women whatsoever. Yes. That offends me. Some of these guys can be funny on other threads, then one of them -- who never plays any other games here -- makes some sexist comment, and other guys join in. And you women think it's funny.

Guess you have no self-respect, huh, girls?

That's why women have been seen as sex objects for so long. They think it's funny. Like those here who call their own breasts boobs, and don't see what a put-down that is.

I just don't get you people. That's why I quit welcoming the new people who come here thinking this is a great community.
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Why are you here?

Shali said it best in post #28. I believe she speaks for nearly all of us.
 
Personally.... I tend to say THANKS to modern medicine... Yeah.. Thanks a lot!!.. Just when we get the old goat settled down, you go ahead and create the "little blue pill". hahahahahaha
 
Shalimar said:
There is a difference between sexism/objectification and fun. For thirty years I have counseled sexually abused boys, girls, men, and women. Dignity means different things to different people. No one person is the

arbiter for all. Where mutual respect exists, words such as boobs are simply amusing to many. No one is obligated to use such terminology if it makes them uncomfortable, but to label us "girls" as lacking in self respect is judgemental in the extreme. I

have been here for almost a year and a half, these men being so heavily critiqued, are my friends. They hold my affection and respect. There is an easygoing camaraderie amongst many of us on this site, so necessary when much of the world is currently

locked in such uncertainty and strife. Play, laughter, silliness, all these things provide balance. This is a good thing. We are a disparate bunch on this forum, different nationalities, genders, ages, beliefs, personalities. Cooperation/coexistence is only

achieved through tolerance, a willingness to turn the other cheek, rather than impose our sense of what is appropriate on everyone else. We all have our sensitivities, subjects we find distressing. Fortunately, one can avoid such threads without

ruining them for people who enjoy them. Some of us love robust debate, yet do not take such differences of opinion
personally. This too is healthy. I am sorry if some "don't get us." Perhaps individuals who hold rigid codes around their

perception of propriety would be happier in a more structured, staid environment, where they can enjoy the company of like minded people. No one member is ever going to set the tone for what this forum "should be," that would be supremely authoritarian. Our admin/moderator would never stand for it, rightly so.
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Shali, you are a smart lady, I always appreciate your wise words.
 
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