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I was in Boulevard Deli the other day getting the newspaper and woman in line ahead of me turned to me and said: "I have my cable tv, my dog, some beer and cigarettes... What else do I need?" Hmmmmmm.
I was in Boulevard Deli the other day getting the newspaper and woman in line ahead of me turned to me and said: "I have my cable tv, my dog, some beer and cigarettes... What else do I need?" Hmmmmmm.
I'm glad I no longer live on a boat and I'm glad I don't live in a trailer.
Interesting.......I am currently facing the fact my husband will be gone in 90 days or just a month or two longer. He has Mesothelioma. It’s really scary for me, but on the other hand, a new ‘adventure’, wanted or not. Currently live in Seattle and if my plans go as I want, plan on moving to Arizona (one of my kids lives there). I could view all of this as scary, sad and depressing, but have decided it’s not how it should be. Wish me luck!
You are such a thoughtful, wonderful husband Pecos.I read through this thread and see the many advantages that I have as a man married to a wife who is 7 years younger than I am. Still I devote a lot of planning and financial resources for her future without me. I do not want her to be lonely and living by herself in this big house cooking for one. What you ladies face looks tough to me and reading this thread prods me forward.
I read through this thread and see the many advantages that I have as a man married to a wife who is 7 years younger than I am. Still I devote a lot of planning and financial resources for her future without me. I do not want her to be lonely and living by herself in this big house cooking for one. What you ladies face looks tough to me and reading this thread prods me forward.
Yes, he is; too bad more husbands aren't like him.You are such a thoughtful, wonderful husband Pecos.
Good luck Deb...we'll be rooting for you!Interesting.......I am currently facing the fact my husband will be gone in 90 days or just a month or two longer. He has Mesothelioma. It’s really scary for me, but on the other hand, a new ‘adventure’, wanted or not. Currently live in Seattle and if my plans go as I want, plan on moving to Arizona (one of my kids lives there). I could view all of this as scary, sad and depressing, but have decided it’s not how it should be. Wish me luck!
I hear you and sympathize (I'm married but we don't have any kids either and I worry to death about it), but I think that all or most of the folks who offer advice & suggestions here on SF mean well. I think what happens a lot is that services for seniors vary widely from place to place here in the U.S. On another site I'm on, there was a lady on the site who kept suggesting that I check with my local Area Agency on Aging (Passages) for various senior services; she said she volunteered at her local Area Agency on Aging and I should check with mine. So the several times I called mine, I kept being told by the Agency, "Oh, sorry, no, we don't offer that." When I relayed that fact to the gal on the website who kept suggesting them, she said, "Where in the world do you live?!" I told her in a mostly rural area 2 hours away from the nearest big city and she said oh, no wonder; she was in a satellite city just outside Denver if memory serves. So it seems to make a huge difference where you live in this great big ol' country of ours.I live alone in my own home with no relatives near and I don’t have any children. I was managing fairly well until two unexpected health emergencies occurred that can happen to anybody without warning. I’ve recovered from both but with considerable loss of energy and mobility. I now realize now how dangerous and impractical it is for older seniors to live alone in a house but I am at a loss as to who to consult with to make changes. There seems to be a general idea afloat that all sorts of services are available to seniors. All sorts of suggestions and advice come from people on this forum who have never tried to access the services or managed an identical situation.
I have and still do use the services I suggest on here. Sometimes I may not be clear on that because I try not to say anything that may cause others to look down on me. Sorry about that.I live alone in my own home with no relatives near and I don’t have any children. I was managing fairly well until two unexpected health emergencies occurred that can happen to anybody without warning. I’ve recovered from both but with considerable loss of energy and mobility. I now realize now how dangerous and impractical it is for older seniors to live alone in a house but I am at a loss as to who to consult with to make changes. There seems to be a general idea afloat that all sorts of services are available to seniors. All sorts of suggestions and advice come from people on this forum who have never tried to access the services or managed an identical situation.