Yes, I am a bit stressed but some rather good Chardonnay is helping through. I can't drink much anytime, but maybe 2 glasses

I'm glad I can't drink much, another story, LOL! I found two clinics about half the distance of "all the way" to the UCSF. I don't know why I didn't think of that earlier. I was just pumped up about going to student dentists because I know it's a great deal, been there done that years ago. But now, things are different for me. I know if I have to, I will handle it, but if I can get out of it, find a dental clinic between Mendocino County and Sonoma, I will go there instead.
Won't have to spend the night, and the Dental Center at UofCA should have no problem sending my xrays they took. Thing is, when I go down Wednesday (if I go) I have no idea what the consult is going to be on my xrays, or what their plan of action will be, or when. I could go all the way down there, with all the expenses, and not get more than a "sorry, you insurance won't cover all of this. I CANNOT get a live person of the phone down there to tell me "what" they've found at this point. It's screwed. They don't realize the distance I am going to get to them.
I know it's really confusing, but basically, I don't know if I've picked my best option. So Monday, I'll figure it out because I have to let the school know, and I have to know that I have another option.
Thanks for the encouragement. I know I'll be ok, it's just such a freaking hastle and this isn't going to fly, me living so far from health and dental care

It's a bummer but I think a larger city like Redding would probably end up being a lot more fun. We always have the pros and cons, and I would just have to start over again, but every time I have started over, it's always been a step up

denise