Male or Female which gender would you rather be ?

hollydolly

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Following on from another discussion about the rights of freedom for women...


If you'd had the choice, and given the western world as it is today..are you happy you were born into your gender .

Would you have preferred to have lived your life as the opposite gender..and if so why?

What advantages or disadvantages is there in your opinion is have been born into the gender you are?

(guys keep it clean ) :)
 

I once told a male friend of mine that I would like to be a woman for a day just to see what it would be like. He replied that that would be too long. After laughing for awhile I agreed... :D
 
I seem to recall a survey a long while back... but I can't find it..(ok I haven't looked) But I remember that many more women would have preferred to be men than visa versa.. Wonder what that implies,...
 

As a male I can pretty much go anywhere and do whatever I want, women tell me that they would never go out to eat alone or go to a movie by themselves, for example...
 
I travel alone; go out on my own; at night; eat on my own; drive hundreds of miles on my own; at night......
just know where you are going; phone in on arrival...take normal precautions; otherwise I would never go anywhere.
 
I would rather be who I am....not change to a man..i don't need to; I have never benn excluded from doing anything because of my sex.
 
Ralphy1 said:
As a male I can pretty much go anywhere and do whatever I want, women tell me that they would never go out to eat alone or go to a movie by themselves, for example...
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Unfortunately this is true for the vast majority of women . Personally, I do go pretty much where I like but I am also aware that it's deemed to be ''not correct' for me to do so by men and also by women.

Men can go to the pub, play golf, go fishing, do loads of things on their own, yet when women do it, she's generally looked on as some kind of oddity...
 
Yes, this forum has some oddballs but that is what makes it interesting...��
 
I'm glad I was born female. Never had any desire to be a male. Well, except when outdoors and there are no bathrooms other than trees and bushes. ;)
 
If I had been born a boy I would never have become a teacher.
I would have become a field geologist and travelled a lot for my work.
I'd have married around 30 and had an adoring wife and two lovely daughters.

No ironing.
Sounds like bliss.
 
An interesting topic HD. There are many aspects about the life of contemporary women which I'm very much attracted to. I envy the friendships between woman. I like their emotional openness. Men don't talk as openly about their feelings. I admire the maternal instinct, where would the world be without it? Although woman are capable of a full range of emotions, they don't usually end up resorting to violence to settle a dispute. I could skip the endless chore woman must face keeping up their appearance. But on the whole I have greatly admired liberated woman and see a bright future for them running the world and in a real sense becoming the dominant gender. Still there is one aspect of masculinity. my libido, which has been a constant source of satisfaction in my life. Woman will argue that they have a libido too, but despite endless discussion of woman's sex life, I remain steadfastly convinced that men get more enjoyment out of sex than woman and not by a little, but by a lot. So given my choice I'd be male through age 60 and then become a woman for the rest of my life.
 
As we are, I don't think we can make the case for a change of gender because we already see it from a gender viewpoint.However, there are more advantages to being a man than a woman when looked at logically.It's really difficult for a woman to have 'everything' so working and bringing up children has to be a juggling act.Women live longer of course, but it's quality not quantity that matters.I think on the whole, that men have a better time of it.
 
There are ways to duck war, and with no conscription you wouldn't have to unless you wanted to...
 
Have to agree with Ralphy1. When I was single, I had no problem going to a bar and/or nightclub by myself and many women feel very uncomfortable going by themselves. However, I did meet some ladies that going by themselves didn't bother them at all. Just like Raphy1 here, could go out and eat alone and go to a movie by myself. So, like exactly what I am.........a male!

Ralphy1 said:
As a male I can pretty much go anywhere and do whatever I want, women tell me that they would never go out to eat alone or go to a movie by themselves, for example...
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