See, this annoys me. YOU don’t annoy me
@bobcat48, I’m not singling you out specifically.
WHY is it A Thing for men to see a woman as sexy? And why do some women feel the need to look sexy? I’ve had this conversation with my husband. “Honey you look sexy in that!” Well, dammit, I’m not TRYING to look sexy. I’m trying to dress in a way that flatters me, but that way of dressing doesn’t .. in my head anyway .. translate to sexy. Just…attractive, or flattering, or any word that communicates that I look nice. But sexy????

