Most Painful thing in the world is losing a Loved one.

My deepest condolences to you & your family. You look at some of these comedy TV shows & they seem to preach that life is one big bowl of cherries but it isn't. There are ups & there are downs. Losing someone who has been so important in your life so long is a pill that is very hard to take. All the best in your healing.
 

Packerjohn said:
My deepest condolences to you & your family. You look at some of these comedy TV shows & they seem to preach that life is one big bowl of cherries but it isn't. There are ups & there are downs. Losing someone who has been so important in your life so long is a pill that is very hard to take. All the best in your healing.
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Well said Packer.....
 
I am sorry for your loss.

I have way too often been the bearer of bad news. Going to a parent’s house early in the morning to advise them that their child won’t be coming home anymore. I have had many mothers put their arms around me and cry their hearts out. What do you tell them to help them feel better and to heal?
 
So very sorry for you and your family's loss. I hope happy memories of him will bring a measure of comfort to your family.
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Yesterday was a Heart Breaking day for me. My nephew (my sisters son) passed away. He was 53yrs old and on in home Hospice care for many months. He was paralyzed when he was 39yrs old due to a missed diagnoses. Even though he was in a wheel chair all those years he was still a very hard worker. When he became paralyzed from the chest down his wife left him. She took half of the money he received from the miss diagnoses. My sister who is 76yrs old has been taking care of him. Last night all I did was hold her and cried. Life is very hard.
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🙏 Prayers for you and your family. This is why I have NO faith in the medical system. I had my annual and told my doc that I have no faith in the medical system...which I don't. I agree, life can be very hard. Grief is in a class all by itself.
 
Sassycakes said:
Yesterday was a Heart Breaking day for me. My nephew (my sisters son) passed away. He was 53yrs old and on in home Hospice care for many months. He was paralyzed when he was 39yrs old due to a missed diagnoses. Even though he was in a wheel chair all those years he was still a very hard worker. When he became paralyzed from the chest down his wife left him. She took half of the money he received from the miss diagnoses. My sister who is 76yrs old has been taking care of him. Last night all I did was hold her and cried. Life is very hard.
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So sorry, Sassycakes….God Bless... Your a good sister....She needs to be held....
 
Thank you all for your kind words. I would never want to go through what I went through this week. Yesterday was the wake and today the funeral. I can not tell you how much my nephew meant to me and my husband and my children. If that wasn't enough pain my oldest grandson had gotten attacked a few weeks ago. His jaw was broken and the Doctor said they would try to see if it could heal on it's own and that he could only drink fluids and grind any real food. It didn't work and he had to have surgery.They did the surgery Wednesday. He is in a great deal of pain. He felt so bad that he couldn't be with us at the wake and funeral. I am praying that he heals quickly. Life can surely be hard.
 
Oh my, Sassy, I am so sorry for what you and your family members have been going through. Life does have some very difficult times.
 
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Oh Sassy, I just don't have the words to tell you how sorry I am that you are having to go through all this. Just be there for your sister.I'm sure she will appreciate it. HUGS
 
Sassy. someone just told me about your loss . My sincerest and deepest sympathy. My heart goes out to your family and to your sisters family. He was so young and suffered a long time im sure.."Gone from your sight but never gone from your heart.." May he rest in peace.
 
May God give you some time to heel and some peace....Loss is a terrible thing when you love the person that is not here anymore....
It seems we get older and have to go through such sadness....Sassy, you will heal, but still remember your nephew forever....It doesn't go away,
but you have to watch your sister to heal after all she had to go through....
God Be With You and your family....
 
I just now saw this thread and wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. Anytime we lose someone close to us, it's a tragedy of consequences.

Your nephew's wife sounds like a real winner. How can some people be so uncaring as to not only divorce their paralyzed spouse, but also take half of his settlement? That's just being cruel and greedy. Maybe the Karma bus will stop at her door someday.
 
oldman said:
I just now saw this thread and wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. Anytime we lose someone close to us, it's a tragedy of consequences.

Your nephew's wife sounds like a real winner. How can some people be so uncaring as to not only divorce their paralyzed spouse, but also take half of his settlement? That's just being cruel and greedy. Maybe the Karma bus will stop at her door someday.
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Thank you Oldman. She got a half a million dollars for his settlement. I was really shocked when she showed up to his wake. She even walked up to me and hugged and kissed me.I didn't say anything rude because I didn't want to hurt the daughter she had with my nephew.
 

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