My name isn't "dear", "dearie" or "hon"

"Young lady" is the only one that bothers me.
I had a co-worker who used to call me "young 'un" but it was like a running joke between us between I was well over 40 and he was like a year older. Now I'm 65 and he's 66 and when we see each other, I still hear "Hey! How are ya, young 'un?!" :LOL: If some whippersnapper would call me "young lady" in a "she's old so I'll make her feel good and call her young" scenario, I'd have to give 'em "the eyeball". :rolleyes:👀
 

I had a co-worker who used to call me "young 'un" but it was like a running joke between us between I was well over 40 and he was like a year older. Now I'm 65 and he's 66 and when we see each other, I still hear "Hey! How are ya, young 'un?!" :LOL: If some whippersnapper would call me "young lady" in a "she's old so I'll make her feel good and call her young" scenario, I'd have to give 'em "the eyeball". :rolleyes:👀
..and now you sound like the Granny from the Beverley Hillbillies :ROFLMAO:
 
All of these words are socially-acceptable terms of endearment in the UK:
Dear, dearie, duck, ducky, luv, lovey, whatever....

They are used everywhere in the UK. People come from all over the British Isles and bring their colloquialisms with them.
Even in Herts!!!

I don’t think anything of it, nothing to be offended about…it’s cute.

I call people honey, sweet thing, darling and they love it!
 
Here in the geezer ghetto I often greet ladies that I know as "Young Lady". I usually get a friendly response and a smile.
Hate being called 'young lady'; one of my doctors addresses me something similar, feel it's condescending, though I'm sure You don't mean it that way! I'm just grumpy, don't mind me.
 
Oh, we do love to live beside the Mimram, Quack, Quack.😅
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this is the River Mimram where I live...pic taken in late Autumn /winter

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