You may not believe it, but many of these parents who are overweight actually want their kids to be overweight. These parents are more comfortable when their kids are overweight as they are. I've heard parents say, "See? It's genetic & nothing can be done about it."What makes me sad is when I see obese parents with 3 young children and the kids are already way overweight. I just think about their future, dealing with diabetes, high blood pressure, strokes, depression, etc., not to mention being made fun of in school and general fat shaming their whole lives. Why are the parents putting the kids through all that when they surely have already experienced the pitfalls of being obese? Sorry if I sound like I have no empathy...I do. But it just seems to me that the parents would try to save their kids from the same difficulties.
I've witnessed it in other families, as well as my own.
When I was in 7th grade, a classmate was at least 80 lbs overweight. I happened to be in line behind him & his parents at McDonald's.
I heard his mother say to him, "Make sure to finish both Cheeseburgers because we're going to do lots of walking at the fair."