Myths of Aging

Ruthanne

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wise/201101/myths-aging
In introducing the concept of normal aging, I would point out that many contemporary images of aging have generally reinforced negative stereotypes of the elderly. Certain conditions do occur but their prevalence and severity have been exaggerated.
Here are some commonly held stereotypes of old age.

MYTH #1: All old people are the same.
REALITY: There is more variety among older people than among any other age group.
MYTH #2: The basic human needs of older people are different from those of younger people.
REALITY: Human needs do not change as we grow old.

MYTH #3: More than 50 percent of the elderly are senile (that is, they suffer memory, disorientation, bizarre behavior)
REALITY: About 80 percent of older adults are healthy enough to carry out their normal activities.

MYTH # 4: All old people are incompetent.
REALITY: Many elderly people, even in the early stages of dementia, can retain their abilities to understand and appreciate information they are given and reason to make important life choices. Physical disabilities are often mistakenly linked to intellectual deficits.

MYTH #5: There is a lack of productivity with older people.
REALITY: While most older people are not in paid employment, they may have important roles as grandparents, caregivers, volunteers, or in civic and social activities.

MYTH #6: All old people suffer from rigid thinking.
REALITY: There is the belief elders shy away from new technologies such as use of computers and the Internet. Over 41 percent of those >65 use the Internet.

MYTH #7: As people age, their ability to learn often stops.
REALITY: Learning patterns may change and speed of learning may diminish but the basic capacity to learn is retained.

MYTH #8: It is easier to learn new things than it is to recall things from the past.
REALITY: The exact opposite is true: It is easier to remember things from the past than it is to learn new things.

MYTH #9: Forgetfulness is likely to indicate the onset of dementia.
REALITY: Memory loss can be caused by medications, medical conditions, or by depression related to life events. Forgetfulness may be an early sign of dementia but it does not necessarily mean a person will be diagnosed with dementia.

MYTH#10: Everyone who gets old will develop dementia.
REALITY: Only 6%-8% of people over age 65 have dementia and 1/3 of those over age 85 have some dementia symptoms.
 

MYTH #7: As people age, their ability to learn often stops.
REALITY: Learning patterns may change and speed of learning may diminish but the basic capacity to learn is retained.


No... would be unfortunate if/when that should happen to anyone.
 

Here's #11, which is a pet peeve of mine: All old people are terrified and incompetent when it comes to using new technology. So every time you see an elderly person using a smart phone, computer, or whatever, make a big fuss about how "cute" they are.
 
Here's #11, which is a pet peeve of mine: All old people are terrified and incompetent when it comes to using new technology. So every time you see an elderly person using a smart phone, computer, or whatever, make a big fuss about how "cute" they are.
If you read the article you will see that the actual #11 is:

MYTH#11: All old people get depressed.
REALITY: Most older adults, most of the time, are not depressed. Depression is NOT a normal part of growing old but rather an illness that needs to be treated. Age alone is not a risk factor for depression.


But Sunny I do see your point. :giggle:
 
I think many young people believe a lot of those myths about the elderly, 60 and up. I have noticed that when I go shopping with my wife and need help with finding a price or an item, there never seems to be anyone around. My mom made the same comment at about 65 y/o. I just shrugged it off, but I see it happening to me.

I was in Kohls about a month ago and needed help finding an item. A lady about 30 or so was also looking for help. A sales associate happened by and stopped and helped her while I continued to wait along side of her. You could tell that we were not together. After she helped the lady, she began to walk away. I asked her (pretty loudly, I must add) “Hey! Am I invisible?” I am in need of some assistance also.” She turned around, red faced, she said, “Oh, I thought you were just looking.” I’ll leave it at that.
 
#1 Myth about aging is - you can age gracefully. After 50ish your skin sags. Your body sags. Your posture sags. And you never feel 100% well again. You just make compromises.
 
#1 Myth about aging is - you can age gracefully. After 50ish your skin sags. Your body sags. Your posture sags. And you never feel 100% well again. You just make compromises.
Did you read the article I wonder. Maybe you are just commenting on the name of the article then.
 
Who wants to age gracefully? I certainly don't. I want to age very disgracefully - just like a male version of this poem...

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
 
Are they myths or observations? Unfortunately, any 6 year old can tell the differenece between a 19 and 91 year old.. Of course, we paint old people with a broad brush. Yet, we DO age. Maybe not all the same, but we are all human. Strangely, how I feel about life , other people, etc.,is pretty much how I felt about life when I was six. I'm still me. I haven't changed. I'm not sure if life should have changed me.
 
I am the same in so many ways too @fuzzybuddy. The one thing that bothers me most is that excitement about the future and what it will surely hold for me. I'd rather never have seen a movie, or read a fairytale since life is nothing like I thought it would be. I know I am silly to some people that are so accepting of life on life's terms, but I'm pissed off a lot of the time:cautious: and we all know how much that does for me ;):geek:
 
MYTH #7: As people age, their ability to learn often stops.
REALITY: Learning patterns may change and speed of learning may diminish but the basic capacity to learn is retained.


No... would be unfortunate if/when that should happen to anyone.
This is very true....I'm in my 70s but I'm learning new sewing skills which I have never tried before, and I'm not having any problems. I invested in a new machine which has a lot more features...certainly not money wasted!
 
what is....a catastrophe-devastation-tribulation-a sad event, the initials are A G I N G now with that said i am as happy as if I had a mind, today has been a mental downer, ugg, but this evening we are going out for an ''All You Can Eat Cod Dinner''. I can't wait to go. At age 70 I was still playing tennis and activity happy go lucky, but now in 80's I have donated my tennis racket to Goodwill. Does anyone have a pill that will make me young again. lol :love:
 
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I wish sometimes @norman but only if I could take what I've learned with me. Then of course, I'd be smarter than all the other's my age (life experience smart) and just want to hang with older people :cool: And then, dealing with this time in Earth's history?? Or any time "over again". Nah, I don't want to do it again.
 

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