Did he find a sweet young girl or was he told what his responsibilities were to the crown and the monarchy. King Charles and Queen Camilla are a love story and from what I see are an asset . It sometimes astounds me just how forward thinking King Charles has been . I am sure that he loved Princess Diana when they were first married though it could not have been easy given that she was always getting all the attention. She bought glamour to the monarchy and worked hard , but she was also a person struggling in life like so many.
She was no sweet innocent young girl..she grew up with the monarchy she was born on the Queen's Sandringham estate..one of her sisters was married to the Queen's Secretary,. that's not someone who types letters for a living this man was the closet to the Queen aside from her own family.. he was her advsior and so much more and his wife was Dianas sister. her father was the Equerry to the Queen.. she knew the royal family from the day she was born ....
...she knew and manipluated her way into the life of Charles, it's been said by many including her own family that she grew up saying she ''wanted the top job'',,.. and that meant to be Queen one day... and she new to be abe to marry him she had to be proven to be a Virgin..( I know it's archaic)... so she kept herself pure in the hope she'd get the chance to catch Charles' eye..
Well he'd got to about 30 years old and there was simply no-one sutiable for him to marry to bear heirs.. he was in love with a woman who was not in love with him, and had married someone else.. so with some pressure from his father to either marry Diana and produce some heirs or let her go... he chose the former..
Now Diana young as she was knew precisely how aristocratic marriages work given she was an aristocrat herself and had watched her father & mother both have affairs.. she knew within the royal family.. it's very common for an aristo wife to be her husband's baby bearer, and also to turn a blind eye to any dalliances... it's happened for centuries
She had become in the meantime the world's darling so believing her own publicity.. she decided she would not keep quiet about Charles dalliances.or even her imagined dalliances.. the fact she accused every woman he encountered with having an afair with Charles, including the chidlren's Nanny.. was bordering on the psychopathic.. in fact Charles was not having any affairs.. but Diana was....in fact she was the cause of one marital split and very nearly another after she stalked 2 married men, both of whom had already had an affair with, and one of whom had to call in the police after she stalked him by ringing his home over 300 times..... then she had a string of lovers.. including Barry Manakee , her protection officer, - james hewit.. and more
However the world could see no wrong in the doe eyed shy Di... and she milked it to the nth degree , but behind closed doors she was a completely different person..
She had an eating disorder, first Bullimia then anorexia.. she spent most of her time vomitting .. she was bad tempered with Charles.. she'd embarass him at parties and in company by making snide remarks and storming out .. ... she didn't want him to go out without her and she didn't want him to persue any of his hobbies . She tried to change him into something he wasn;t..his clothing, his hair style, his taste in music... he tried... but it just wasn't him. She tried to tell the world he was an absent father.. that wasn't true... but she always ensured the press were there when she took the boys to the park alone .. but Charles never alerted the press when he took the boys fishing... or hunting
Most men would only endure that for so long.. and it was the case with Charles.. not saying he's any angel.. but it was only after this that he rekindled his affair with his first love. Camilla.. clearly looking for someone who wasn't a harpy...
If I had to choose anyone to blame for this ..I would 100 % blame Camilla..
She was older by 14 years , she knew Diana. she knew how fragile she was she should have kept away from Charles.. at least if and until he got divorced..