I think when people start disrespecting one another, it's the beginning of the end. If you don't value your spouse or they don't value you, it's the beginning of the end. Of course what caused and leads up to that point in time, varies from different couples. You have to have goals. Some people say marriage requires a lot of work. I don't see it that way. If you enjoy each other's company and your time together, it's not work. It's just like some people's jobs are work to them. Other people enjoy their jobs so much, it's not like work. It's enjoyable. When marriage starts to be a job and not enjoyable, then that's when I think marriages start to spiral down.
