Debby, I love ya but you are totally naive on this subject. We (the allies) were fighting two different theaters of war. Neither war was started by "the good ole USA". Our resources were stretched to the limits. We or none of our allies were anything even approaching cruel as were the Japanese. The Japanese made no serious peace overtures though they did stall so the could regain steam at the time. You can go on and blame the victim all you want, that is now vogue. No one I know of take any pleasure in the knowledge of these bomb effects but keep in mind this was brand new technology at the time.
To ask how we felt about the terrorist act in New York reflects your lack of sensitivity to it. I hope you aren't suggesting any comparison to the bombings. Contrary to what you seem to think about Americans and your second guessing our actions during WW2, we are one of the most compassionate people in the world. I won't try again to convince you further as it is clear you are resolved in your position. No hard feelings here just disappointment.
The USA may not have started a war in that instance, but Jim, Japan was trying desperately to surrender and the government of the time ignored them. Numerous telegrams and to no avail because there was an agenda by that time concerning the billion or so dollars spent on the development of those bombs and the desire to impress upon Stalin, just how strong America was and the Japanese people (civilians as usual) paid that price! Japan was done, but America didn't care.
July 8, 1945 Japan approached the Swedes to mediate.
July 12, 1945 Japan telegraphs Moscow, asking them to mediate and that communication was intercepted by America and Truman was informed.
http://www.fpp.co.uk/History/Churchill/Japan_surrender_attempts/index.html
and according to the following link, by mid June there had already been 20 communiques sent by Commander Fujimara Yoshikazu, 'encouraging an end to the war'.
http://www.upa.pdx.edu/IMS/currentprojects/TAHv3/Content/PDFs/Operation_Super_Sunrise.pdf
You say Japan made no serious peace overtures, but you are standing on quick sand with that, there is NO documentation that says that anywhere. Quite the contrary, there is documentation that speaks to their efforts to surrender well before those bombs were dropped.
https://www.cia.gov/library/center-...ence/kent-csi/vol9no3/html/v09i3a06p_0001.htm Note that this is a CIA document that attests to their efforts to open up discussion on surrendering.
You suggest that I am insensitive as regards the Towers coming down! Are you serious? Oh my gosh and thank you for judging me on that! And then to suggest that that act of terrorism has no comparison to the terrible suffering that was inflicted on helpless Japanese civilians is absolutely disappointing to me. America (and numerous other citizens from other countries were in those buildings at the time) and America in general, was assaulted (and murdered) and that fact isn't lost at all on me nor does it bring me any pleasure and I'm offended by that inference. And just as innocent civilians suffered and died that day in New York, innocent civilians suffered and died in Japan at the hands of an American government that chose to ignore their overtures for peace.
In fact, if you want to compare who suffered more, New Yorks event saw 3,000 people die while Japan lost 120,000 in their two horrendous events and that doesn't include the people who didn't die immediately and lived on to suffer the effects of burns and radiation poisoning. In fact, the civilian losses in WW2 in the USA was minimal whereas Japanese civilian deaths were 360,000.
http://www.historylearningsite.co.uk/civilian_casualties_of_world_war.htm
As I said before, until we all quit justifying acts of war, it will continue. Unless of course you are willing to concede that you as a voter have next to no influence on the agenda's of all our governments in which case, why do any of us vote? Maybe we should just accept that our governments are doing their own thing and we are all just window dressing to a farce known as 'democracy'.