


My first inclination and I have enormous faith in my instincts, they have very rarely let me down…call it a blessing or a curse, but I was born with this and it has served me well. In a nutshell then, I am having trouble with the veracity of the original post.
That being the case, I shall not give you any "sound" advice because in doing so, I would be extremely unfair to your wife, whose side of the story we do not know.
You cannot make someone have sexual feelings for you. Obviously this aspect of marriage is very important to you and why not? On the other hand, your wife, from what you told us has lost interest…perhaps she is asexual … perhaps you are oversexed…who knows? No one is in your house with you and you are not going to tell us the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
The way I see it…if this is a real situation, you have two avenues open to you. You either put up with your present conditions and live as companions …or… you bite the bullet and leave the situation. Things have a way of working out.
Good luck!


