Smilies when to use them?

Mike

Mike

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The ones at the bottom right of the posted replies window,
under "Like", there is love, laugh, etc., etc.

Is like one reply from a person enough, or do I keep liking
every reply? If so there will be lots of "Likes", for the same
subject and if I read a thread a day or two after it was put
up, all the likes become a bit tiring, for these old fingers!

Mike.
 
Mike said:
Is like one reply from a person enough, or do I keep liking
every reply? If so there will be lots of "Likes", for the same
subject and if I read a thread a day or two after it was put
up, all the likes become a bit tiring, for these old fingers!
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It's completely up to you, some members like to "like" many posts, some only "like" posts that they really like, some don't "like" any posts. I usually only "like" exceptional posts because there are so many good ones.
 
Thank you for your replies, I understand why they are
there and when to use them, but maybe I posed the
question wrong, If there are a lot of replies from the
same 2 or 3 people, is it expected to like every reply,
or would one be acceptable?

Mike.
 
Mike said:
Thank you for your replies, I understand why they are
there and when to use them, but maybe I posed the
question wrong, If there are a lot of replies from the
same 2 or 3 people, is it expected to like every reply,
or would one be acceptable?

Mike.
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@Mike, I think it's really up to you and what you're comfortable with.

I typically will like/love/smile single posts. If someone is replying to another poster (quoting them), and If I like what they've posted, I will hit the like button, but if they're going back and forth, like a conversation, I might move on. Does that make sense?
 
When I first started communicating with electronic text I typed pretty much what I would say if I was verbally communicating with someone. I found that many times during an electronic text conversation what I was communicating was misconstrued because of the lack of body language and tone of voice . When appropriate I use the emoticons to fill that void. They beat a blank. When I create a thread I usually like all the replies because they took the time and effort to respond.
 
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Thank you palides for your helpful answer, it is more or less
what I practice now, but I thought that maybe there was a
rule as to how and what to do for best.

oldpop thank you for your reply too, I understand and suffer
the same problems, but I haven't used many smilies to support
my efforts.

Mike.
 
oldpop said:
When I first started communicating with electronic text I typed pretty much what I would say if I was verbally communicating with someone. I found that many times during an electronic text conversation what I was communicating was misconstrued because of the lack of body language and tone of voice . When appropriate I use the emoticons to fill that void. They beat a blank. When I create a thread I usually like all the replies because they took the time and effort to respond.
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well aside from the ones where I genuinely want to show an emotion or reaction like laughter to something funny, or sadness for someone's mishaps.. I use emoticons in exactly the same way as you (y)
 
Matrix said:
It's completely up to you, some members like to "like" many posts, some only "like" posts that they really like, some don't "like" any posts. I usually only "like" exceptional posts because there are so many good ones.
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Thank you for the changed Love like, much better than the old one in my opinion. I just noticed that. Sometimes you want to give a Love like to a post without a big smiley face. 👍
 
I think the red angry emoji:mad: should not be one of the 6 choices offered in the post box...not in a "friendly forum". It's harsh and can be misused in a hurtful way and can be viewed as a lack-of-self-control emotion. The sad face:( works when angry.

We don't have an "I care" emoji like a hug🤗 or a flower🌹. In my opinion we should replace the angry emoji with a hug or flowers. If someone says "I'm in pain but some days are better than others" or "My pet died but trying to focus on the time I had with him", I don't want to leave a Like emoji nor a Sad Face. I just want to say "I'm thinking of you and I care".
 
Lara said:
I think the red angry emoji:mad: should not be one of the 6 choices offered in the post box...not in a "friendly forum". It's harsh and can be misused in a hurtful way and can be viewed as a lack-of-self-control emotion. The sad face:( works when angry.

We don't have an "I care" emoji like a hug🤗 or a flower🌹. In my opinion we should replace the angry emoji with a hug or flowers. If someone says "I'm in pain but some days are better than others" or "My pet died but trying to focus on the time I had with him", I don't want to leave a Like emoji nor a Sad Face. I just want to say "I'm thinking of you and I care".
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I agree, @Lara. Sometimes I just go to the top of the post and grab an emoji from there, like a flower. We really don't have to use the ones at the bottom of the post, but they are handy. I like the hug emoji!🤗
 
Lara said:
I think the red angry emoji:mad: should not be one of the 6 choices offered in the post box...not in a "friendly forum". It's harsh and can be misused in a hurtful way and can be viewed as a lack-of-self-control emotion. The sad face:( works when angry.

We don't have an "I care" emoji like a hug🤗 or a flower🌹. In my opinion we should replace the angry emoji with a hug or flowers. If someone says "I'm in pain but some days are better than others" or "My pet died but trying to focus on the time I had with him", I don't want to leave a Like emoji nor a Sad Face. I just want to say "I'm thinking of you and I care".
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I agree with @Lara. The angry emoji is confusing.

When I’ve gone to use this lately I’m not sure of the meaning it sends.
Am I angry at your comment because I disagree with it and think it was very wrong.
Or has the comment made me angry because it was about something that I think is horrid and therefore I am upset/angry like you are.

Perhaps it could be replaced with a thumbs down (👎) to show disagreement. Or with a positive Caring emoji.

@Matrix These are just suggestions and JMO.
 
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