The Worst Thing to Happen to Me Today

I was cold and tired and I went into the kitchen for a cup of tea. There was a draft on my back and dang the AC was cranking. I stepped out on the sunny porch to get warm but it was only 68 degrees and breezy. I lost it and began yelling "68 degrees and the AC is blasting." One of the housemates came down and fiddled with the thermostat. I am probably still anemic but taking my meds.
 

RedAlert76 said:
We needed to go grocery store today,as Wed. blizzard stopped us. But we both got upnot in the mood. He was not feeling well,unusual for him. Then my left knee was bothering...that's new. Then it cracked and well sort of bothers me.
Going to try and wait until Monday. I am sure all this to will pass. Sigh,just always something :sneaky:
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Hope you guys will be ok by Mon!
 

MaidMarian said:
My daughter went home and the worst thing was my husband immediately got back to his intense nastiness as soon as she was out the door.
Bad day.
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(((hugs)))..I know so much what you're going through...my soon2BX would do the same thing... I called him Jekyll and Hyde... when my daughter was around he was nice as pie chatting to her about things they have in common.. smiling at me and being nice while she was here.. and the minute she was gone he reverted back .. so if ever I complained about him to her, I could tell she thought I was exaggerating because she never saw that side of him...
 
hollydolly said:
(((hugs)))..I know so much what you're going through...my soon2BX would do the same thing... I called him Jekyll and Hyde... when my daughter was around he was nice as pie chatting to her about things they have in common.. smiling at me and being nice while she was here.. and the minute she was gone he reverted back .. so if ever I complained about him to her, I could tell she thought I was exaggerating because she never saw that side of him...
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My daughter knows exactly what and how he is. She’s lived it.
Now that she has her own home, he is usually nice when she visits us. He usually stays quietly in his room.
I really think that he is jealous because when she visits, she spends her time with me and we have a very good time.
It is his own doing, though, that she doesn’t spend time with him. He is holed up in his room and barely talks to her when she’s here.
Then when she leaves, he takes it all out on me.
 
Last night, as I was on my way to bed, my phone started ringing. I checked and it was a local, but unknown number. I didn't answer it, but there was a voicemail. I listened to it this morning and the caller said in a cranky, old lady voice that I was so rude to never answer their calls. That was all.
 
MaidMarian said:
My daughter knows exactly what and how he is. She’s lived it.
Now that she has her own home, he is usually nice when she visits us. He usually stays quietly in his room.
I really think that he is jealous because when she visits, she spends her time with me and we have a very good time.
It is his own doing, though, that she doesn’t spend time with him. He is holed up in his room and barely talks to her when she’s here.
Then when she leaves, he takes it all out on me.
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could you not just visit your daughter by yourself, and not have her come to the house ? He's obviously seeing his house as his domain, and doesn;t want anyone else there.

In my situation my soon2BX was not my DD's father ...so she never lived with him to see what he was like
 
The worst thing to happen to me yesterday was boredom from not having enough to do. I'm feeling better and starting to think about maybe, maybe going back to the horse rescue in the next few months. We'll need to get a car first.

I really miss the horses.
 
Judycat said:
Last night, as I was on my way to bed, my phone started ringing. I checked and it was a local, but unknown number. I didn't answer it, but there was a voicemail. I listened to it this morning and the caller said in a cranky, old lady voice that I was so rude to never answer their calls. That was all.
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You did nothing wrong and the fact that you didn't recognise her voice or "their" identity proves you did the right thing. Her voice mail was her chance to introduce herself but she didn't even leave a "known" number. I suggest you block the number if you can.
 
I haven't had anything bad happen yet today and I wouldn't dwell on it if something bad did happen because the more negative attention you give yourself the more you attract. I try to stay positive always and if I can't be positive I go to sleep. :unsure:
 
chic said:
I haven't had anything bad happen yet today and I wouldn't dwell on it if something bad did happen because the more negative attention you give yourself the more you attract. I try to stay positive always and if I can't be positive I go to sleep. :unsure:
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Sometimes, when you think about the worst thing to happen to you, you realize the worst thing wasn't so bad.
 
hollydolly said:
could you not just visit your daughter by yourself, and not have her come to the house ? He's obviously seeing his house as his domain, and doesn;t want anyone else there.

In my situation my soon2BX was not my DD's father ...so she never lived with him to see what he was like
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I do visit my daughter by myself. I spend weekends with her often. This time was her birthday and she wanted to spend it with the whole family. She spent the night here.
She knows exactly what her father is but he’s still her father and she loves him.
 
I did my taxes and ended up owing yet again. Ugh! I'm an independent contractor whose income fluctuates, and although I prepay quarterly taxes I've been underestimating them the past couple of years. I'm determined to fix this situation. 💸

On a positive note, it's a great motivator to get to work. I was going to take today off, but . . . that stack of manuscripts is calling. :cool:
 
hollydolly said:
(((hugs)))..I know so much what you're going through...my soon2BX would do the same thing... I called him Jekyll and Hyde... when my daughter was around he was nice as pie chatting to her about things they have in common.. smiling at me and being nice while she was here.. and the minute she was gone he reverted back .. so if ever I complained about him to her, I could tell she thought I was exaggerating because she never saw that side of him...
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My dad was like that. It is common in people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
 

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