The Worst Thing to Happen to Me Today

You didn't have any contact with them (him)? It would be insightful for all of us to know how he is coping.
One of the positives about living here is not minding/meddling in each others lives. I just learned of the death yesterday. I’m not certain how any of us here would gain anything from how he’s doing. What he presents publicly doesn’t really tell anyone, including me, how he’s doing.
 

If you love Tea quit drinking it if you feel tired all the time.
 

You know, it's nice when I really have to wrack my brain for a worst thing. :)

Worst thing was probably husband and boyfriend being at work at the same time. But really, I was fine in my own company. It's nice to have time on my own. Okay well, son and daughter were here, but doing their own things.
You need to not fear being by yourself. Why can't you? You need to find out why.
 
dragging my wheelie rubbish bin at full capacity -they are heavy - down our 400 yd sand coated driveway with puddles dashed about and depositing on the roadside for "kerb collection" - NO they refuse to drive lotteries up individual drives to collect. Fortunately it was a cloudy morn. then later at no specific time of the day I need to do the same trip to collect the empty bin and return home - it's probably my worst nightmare atm!!

Fortunately and usually I don't need to do it weekly probably 2/3 weekly will do phew!
 
This hasn't happened yet, but it will today: I have to cancel my health insurance for the third year in a row. I'm self-employed and just can't afford the premiums, even on the marketplace. The lack of insurance makes my anxiety skyrocket. One of the reasons I can't afford insurance, ironically, is that I'm in a lot of debt from cataract surgery I had a few years ago. I had to put it—ugh—on a credit card.
I managed to hold on for one more month, at least. I was going to put this in the "Best Thing That Happened" thread, but for the sake of continuity am putting it here.

Thanks for the supportive reactions; it meant a lot!
 
You know, it's nice when I really have to wrack my brain for a worst thing. :)

Worst thing was probably husband and boyfriend being at work at the same time. But really, I was fine in my own company. It's nice to have time on my own. Okay well, son and daughter were here, but doing their own things.
I'm new here, so..... You have a husband and a boyfriend?
 
It would have to be the elevator stopping on the way up to my floor. Instead of panicking, I pushed the 2 again until it started moving again. Then when it stopped.......it stopped with a bang! At least the doors opened and I was home.
Yikes! I am claustrophobic and do NOT like elevators. I would have been in a complete panic. Glad you got home OK. @katlupe.
 
Studies indicate drinking tea 2 hours before or after eating will / can / block 75% of ones ability to absorb Iron for red blood cells. Thus Anemia can
occur. Coffee is 60%. Going easy on them seems wise today. I'll try to find it for you.

Tea study blocking iron intake - Bing

Go easy on Tea for a bit?
Thanks for the follow up. I had no idea, I quit coffee in favor of tea, I guess I'm down to water!
 
Insanity made me flip the rug under the kitchen table up. Well, at least where the chairs are. The rug pad has decided to start disintegrating. So I move all chairs and vacuum as far as I can reach. It takes three men to lift the table. One is SO, and whoever I can scare up at 5:00. Kitchen/living room is a mess!
 
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Thanks for the follow up. I had no idea, I quit coffee in favor of tea, I guess I'm down to water!
I would check with the Dr. too, I love sweet Tea, seldom have it though. Its my S.C. trips, gotta order thing too out to dinner with the Kids and GC's. Try to time trips with Birthdays, xmas and weddings stuff.
 
he's very charming... even at the checkout he will hold the gaze of the cashier or the waitress..or barmaid ( always irritating to me ) .. but he's quiet.. he doesn't talk much he's not loud like all narcs that I've ever known...
Holly, he sounds a lot like my H, whom I would classify as a Covert Narcissist. He is quiet, charming. Everyone says he’s the nicest guy they know, but they don’t live with him.
Like your X, nothing is ever his fault. In 37 years, I’ve never heard him say, “I’m sorry. “
 
Holly, he sounds a lot like my H, whom I would classify as a Covert Narcissist. He is quiet, charming. Everyone says he’s the nicest guy they know, but they don’t live with him.
Like your X, nothing is ever his fault. In 37 years, I’ve never heard him say, “I’m sorry. “
My Misses is a Redhead, one might imagine the Nukes. But the belief seems to work ok.
I have a lil Cotton, 9-year-old, was all white. Is gradually turning to a Redhair this past winter.
She's basically Red's lil Cotton and I think she just wants to be like Red.
 


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