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Warrigal said:
No, I'm on the same wavelength with you Di. I don't agree with Just Sayin all that often and sometimes I have no idea what he is on about but I'm prepared to engage him in conversation to learn more about him, his thinking and his experiences in life. It's the last mentioned that he has been holding back on but people only open up when they feel comfortable enough to do so. I hold back a lot more than I reveal as a matter of self protection.

There are threads on this forum that I wouldn't be bothered commenting on. Women's eyebrows comes to mind. Rather than wade in with a dismissive comment, I just shuffle on to something that interests me more. If there's nothing on offer, I try to start something new.

Some of these fly, others sink like lead balloons, which is a learning exercise in itself.

Oh yeah, I nearly forgot.

Happy Birthday Caspar

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I enjoyed that eyebrow thread, but I like a very vast array of subjects. And your approach is wise and mature. Too many would make those dismissive comments.
 
I sometimes find that a thread that I had written off early on develops in surprising ways.
Sometimes they veer out of control in very funny and entertaining ways.

Always worth a second look.
 
Warrigal said:
I sometimes find that a thread that I had written off early on develops in surprising ways.
Sometimes they veer out of control in very funny and entertaining ways.

Always worth a second look.
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Well, you have an open mind which allows you to see things that way too.
Often on sites there's an uproar when an original post fades as other replies bring up different subjects. But that's just normal and makes it more of an adventure.
 
Pappy said:
I kinda feel the same way, Phil. :mad:
But it's been made clear that I'm not smart enough to debate anyone by a certain party, so I'll just make a comment here and there.
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I didn't see that conclusion in what has been posted in this thread. What I have read out of it so far, is that ALL topics are fine, ALL members are fine; anyone can join into any conversation; but we should not get into a topic just to disrupt it, or because we don't agree with discussing that topic.
There are a plethora of topics on this forum; so there always should be topics that people are interested in, and some that we aren't.
Some are self-limiting; not much for the guys to post into the "eyebrow" thread, for instance, so that thread just got ignored by anyone who didn't have an opinion, or something meaningful to add.
I think this works well for all the discussions. For instance, OP stated she did not like religious or political discussions; so no need for her to post there if she is not interested. Others who are interested will want to join in that conversation.
Kind of like having a Buffet Dinner; we all go through the line, and pick out what we like, while being considerate of the other people in line with us.

And, in my opinion, the little bits of humor that get injected into even the serious discussions, are a fine thing, as well.
 
I've been involved in discussions online for years and enjoy them. There are some things worth noting which basically for me is consideration and civility.

I lose it when the sarcasm starts or the belittling. Unfortunately, being behind a pc lends itself to saying things you would never say in person when you have to look the person in the eyeball.

It doesn't take much to be civil even when you have a clear disagreement on a subject. Manners cost nothing.

That this particular site is about seniors implies a certain level of maturity so we have that to aim for too.

I do love humor and post funny pics, vidoes, etc. But I would hope they are in keeping with the flow and spirit of the thread and I would feel bad if I stuck something in when it was insensitive to do so. I don't think I do.
 
SifuPhil said:
Well, after 176 replies in this thread I see what the majority desire here.

From this point on I'll be posting serious replies to serious topics and not indulging in any form of interruptive comedy.

Thank you all for your opinions - it is truly appreciated.
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Don't you dare!
 
Now, I'm just confused. Do I say something? Do I not say something? Am I being insensitive and rude? Should I worry about it? Heck no. I'm just gonna keep on keepin' on with no harm meant nor expected. I love this forum and must say it's the only one I visit each day. My habit is to check the new posts and see if I feel like can add something either silly or not depending on my mood. If anyone finds me annoying than may I suggest just ignoring me. Easy.
 
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