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HiDesertHal

HiDesertHal

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My wife and I haven't slept together for 10 years or more.

Why, since you asked? Well, she can't sleep because I toss and turn all night, and I can't sleep because she snores.

Since we don't sleep together, we sleep apart!

She uses the guest bedroom across the hall from the master bedroom, where I sleep, so we're seperated by 2 closed doors.

We still use my bed for other purposes, for which we are eminently suited.

Now you know.

Harold (aka Hal, HiDesertHal, HDH, and Howl)
 

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:lol: TMI

For my part I sleep beside my husband who is a champion snorer because I cannot poke him in the middle of the back from across the hallway. However, his snoring has no trouble being heard from one end of the house to the other.
 
My husband and I haven't slept in the same room either, for well over 10 years...for exactly the same reason...he snores like a train...I sleep 2 rooms away...and I STILL have to have earplugs in not to hear him...
 
HiDesertHal said:
My wife and I haven't slept together for 10 years or more.

Why, since you asked? Well, she can't sleep because I toss and turn all night, and I can't sleep because she snores.

Since we don't sleep together, we sleep apart!

She uses the guest bedroom across the hall from the master bedroom, where I sleep, so we're seperated by 2 closed doors.

We still use my bed for other purposes, for which we are eminently suited.

Now you know.

Harold (aka Hal, HiDesertHal, HDH, Harold, and Howl)
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So you commute during the day so why not at night?
 
I can't imagine sharing a bedroom with anyone, Hal. When you get any two people together, it always seems that one of them is messy and the other is neat, like the Odd Couple. The last relationship I was in, I decided I wasn't going to continue picking up his socks and underwear because he was too lazy to put it in the hamper, so I set my own room (along with my own bathroom). It was pure bliss to read as late as I wanted without anyone grumbling about it. I also quit doing any laundry but my own, a direct offshoot of having my own bathroom, closet, bed and hamper.
 
I take up very little space in the bed which makes me an easy mark for anyone with aggressive tendencies! :sentimental:
 
My late husband and I didn't sleep in the same room for almost ten years. He snored like a buzzsaw. I'd just finally get to sleep and would start snoring myself and he'd poke me and say, "you're snoring!" and then I'd be awake again. How he could hear my snoring over his snoring is beyond me.

So, it was for the best that I moved into the guest room to sleep.

Luckily, the Spousal Equivalent snores very little and is easily stopped without actually waking him. My snoring doesn't bother him, so it's win-win.

I don't remember my grandparents (either set of them) sharing a room ever. They must have when younger but not in my time. My parents shared a room until my dad died.
 
I believe that "snorers" sleep on their back....and their jaws fall open,, hence, they snore.

As long as I can remember, I've always slept on my LEFT side and never has anybody told me that I snore.

I've had two wives and neither ever complained about snoring..
 
I've noticed something interesting: I always go to sleep on my stomach, but when I wake up I'm always on my back. Why is that?
 
Me, my husband, dog and cat sleep in our king size bed, not too much moving around or snoring, so it works for us. :sleep:
 

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