To chat about my surgery

Well. Today I went on my last grocery stock up trip before surgery. Bought a lot of stuff. Even though technically I will be clear to drive after 2-3 weeks, not sure when I will have the stamina to do a shopping trip. Even though I would use a mart kart.
I think I can get through almost two months or more on what I have. Allowing I will also probably not have a huge apitite at first.

Julie wants me to get meals on wheels..but they are rather expensive per meal, and some of the folks here are not too impressed by it.

Does anyone have something called Instacart in your area? You set up an account and can have groceries delivered when you order online. You can even pay with SNAP benefits. Or credit card. Delivery can be as quick as that day, or a set day/time.
 

I agree with what someone said above. Please don't overthink it. You have done so much planning, and GOOD planning, everything will be fine. Whether you decide to go to rehab or not will depend on how you feel after the surgery.
If it is an option, that is part of your good planning.

I personally have never used Instacart, but I know people who have. They are generally satisfied, except when they get something "similar" to what was ordered, but not exact. That does not happen often, but sometimes.

Relax, deep breaths, you have done so much to help yourself after surgery.
Everything will be fine. Wish you the best.
 
We have instacart but I don't use them. They are expensive here. They have their own mark up on each item plus the delivery and tip.

When I had my hip replacement last year I used Walmart delivery. There was the delivery charged and tip but the cost per product was the same as when I shopped in the store. I put in the order notes to give me a minute to get to the door. The drivers were so nice and placed everything in the front hall so I could take my time putting it away. They grouped meats, produce and cold things together. I could take care of that first, then rest while putting away the rest. Hope you have one near you.
 

Marie5656 said:
Well. Today I went on my last grocery stock up trip before surgery. Bought a lot of stuff. Even though technically I will be clear to drive after 2-3 weeks, not sure when I will have the stamina to do a shopping trip. Even though I would use a mart kart.
I think I can get through almost two months or more on what I have. Allowing I will also probably not have a huge apitite at first.

Julie wants me to get meals on wheels..but they are rather expensive per meal, and some of the folks here are not too impressed by it.

Does anyone have something called Instacart in your area? You set up an account and can have groceries delivered when you order online. You can even pay with SNAP benefits. Or credit card. Delivery can be as quick as that day, or a set day/time.
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I started using Instacart during the pandemic. There are fees and a tip, and like @Blessed said, they do mark up the item. I also pay a small fee if I want free delivery. Since it's only me (and sometimes son), the time I have saved going, shopping, and coming back, and the cost of gas are well worth it. Also, it's less pressure on my neck because I don't have to carry the groceries.
 
Marie5656 said:
Well. Today I went on my last grocery stock up trip before surgery. Bought a lot of stuff. Even though technically I will be clear to drive after 2-3 weeks, not sure when I will have the stamina to do a shopping trip. Even though I would use a mart kart.
I think I can get through almost two months or more on what I have. Allowing I will also probably not have a huge apitite at first.

Julie wants me to get meals on wheels..but they are rather expensive per meal, and some of the folks here are not too impressed by it.

Does anyone have something called Instacart in your area? You set up an account and can have groceries delivered when you order online. You can even pay with SNAP benefits. Or credit card. Delivery can be as quick as that day, or a set day/time.
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Good that you're stocking up Marie, that will take the pressure off after surgery. I never used instacart, but I did have some deliveries from my local Kroger supermarket at the beginning of the pandemic, ordered online and paid with credit card. No contact left at my front step of my home. I got my orders delivered in a few hours. Not sure how hey handle apartment type addresses though, I would think they came right to your door.

Thinking of you, good luck with your surgery.
 
@Marie5656
Daughter & SIL live in a condo, and use Instacart. Their food is delivered to their door. I think there's a "no substitute" option on items. They've been using it since Covid began. I'm not absolutely certain, but after you use it a few times, you may be able to choose your personal shopper. I think that's what my daughter told me. In any case, you get to know who the "good" shoppers are.

Best to you on surgery day!
 
palides2021 said:
I started using Instacart during the pandemic. There are fees and a tip, and like @Blessed said, they do mark up the item. I also pay a small fee if I want free delivery. Since it's only me (and sometimes son), the time I have saved going, shopping, and coming back, and the cost of gas are well worth it. Also, it's less pressure on my neck because I don't have to carry the groceries.
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Be sure to go through your home and make sure everything is safe, rugs, electrical cords, tripping hazards out of the way. Put things you use up on the counter in the kitchen and bath as you won't be able to bend or lean to get to thinsg.
 
Marie5656 said:
My hip replacement is on May 24th, so I will use this spot to document my journey. I will get a call the day before to tell me what time to go the hospital. My niece is driving me. Che can come in to get me through check in, but then she will have to leave the hospital until I am out and in my room. Then she can come back.
Luckily, I live very near the hospital..mile and a half or so. So she can come back to my apartment to wait if she wants.
Baring something unforseen, I will be released on the 25th. Julie will be unavailable to pick me up..but one of my friends here told me to call her, as there are a couple people here who said they will draw straws or something to see who wins a chance to bring me home.
We have a wheelchair in the storeroom, so my friend can use it to get me up stairs, and then bring it back down

Today I had to separate my Melatonin and my prescription pain med away, as I have to stop both. I can take Tylenol. I have a post op visit on June 7th. By then I will be cleared to drive, so I can take myself.
I will have a Physical Therapist coming out..not sure how often, but probably an hour visit each time.
I have already been told to walk as much as I am comfortable, but they encourage I have someone with me walking outside, and to wear my "I've fallen and I can't get up button AT ALL TIMES!

Not surgery related...but I am going out tomorrow (Saturday) to buy my new tv. Many more apps and extras on this for my viewing pleasure during recovery.
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Hi Marie. I'm sending my best wishes for a successful surgery and swift recovery. I'm curious - one hip or two? I really don't know anything about hip replacement, but will likely be a candidate one of these years.
 
Blessed said:
Be sure to go through your home and make sure everything is safe, rugs, electrical cords, tripping hazards out of the way. Put things you use up on the counter in the kitchen and bath as you won't be able to bend or lean to get to thinsg.
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Thanks, @Blessed! I've had neck issues for several years now, and have gotten used to certain limitations. Your suggestions are greatly appreciated!
 
Em in Ohio said:
Hi Marie. I'm sending my best wishes for a successful surgery and swift recovery. I'm curious - one hip or two? I really don't know anything about hip replacement, but will likely be a candidate one of these years.
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Hi @Em in Ohio just my left hip. Had the right one done in 2008. Basically the issue is the cartilage is gone. The process is that they attach a rod the the side of your leg. Thet do not really remove much, just attach the rod to your leg at the hip. I know there is more to it to that.
All I know for sure is I will feel a whole lot better. So will you.

@palides2021 Yep..been working on the home safety issue. Had my housecleaning lady help me with that. Removing obsticals and stuff. I have had a shower chair since I moved in, and put in a grab bar out side the shower. Also I got a thing around my throne that I grab onto when I stand up.
I have one of those easy lift chairs to help me get up. I keep my cane near by all the time, even next to bed. I have my walker too.
 
It sounds like you have everything covered for a safe recovery when you get home, Marie.

I have Instacart and use it with my EBT card. In my building I have to go downstairs to meet the shopper at the door. They do not come inside the building (since COVID) now. I like the service though and I subscribed to the express so I only have to pay for the tip and a small fuel charge and service fee (about $2.00).

Good luck with your surgery and recovery.
 
Marie5656 said:
Well. Today I went on my last grocery stock up trip before surgery. Bought a lot of stuff. Even though technically I will be clear to drive after 2-3 weeks, not sure when I will have the stamina to do a shopping trip. Even though I would use a mart kart.
I think I can get through almost two months or more on what I have. Allowing I will also probably not have a huge apitite at first.

Julie wants me to get meals on wheels..but they are rather expensive per meal, and some of the folks here are not too impressed by it.

Does anyone have something called Instacart in your area? You set up an account and can have groceries delivered when you order online. You can even pay with SNAP benefits. Or credit card. Delivery can be as quick as that day, or a set day/time.
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I've used Instacart since the start of the pandemic. It is expensive for me (adds about $20-25 dollars to an order), but it is so much easier and I can now afford it since I only order food once a month. My hip joints don't take well to walking on hard floors. I agree with those who complain about meals on wheels. My mother used the service for a while, but the meals did not match up to her home-cooking standards. She was happier with TV dinners!
 
Thanks for all the good thoughts. In response to my question about instacart, I guess I will go for it for a bit. I have plenty of food to get me a while, did lots of extra shopping.
But if I need to, at least I will have the option of that or Walmart.
Of course, today a couple of Instacart guys came to deliver which did little to get my trust in them. The got buzzed into the lobby. Looked around a bit. Then found the elevators. Another lady was getting on with them She was by the control and asked where they were going. One guy said "I do not know, what floor is 215 on?" hmmmm....
 
Sigh. I, of course, am getting lots of questions from friends and neighbors in my building, I do not mind. But one lady on my floor is a Debby Downer sort. Always seeing negative. I mentioned I was going to ask my caseworker to look into rehab facilities for me, even for just a few days. I will feel better with a transition of sorts,
Well, then this lady gives me all the stories of her friend, or someone sister who went to a nursing home and never came home. I tried to explain that there is where people go for rehab, and that does not mean you are staying Nope..if I go to rehab I am not coming home.
Thank you for your support...I will show you.
 
Marie5656 said:
Sigh. I, of course, am getting lots of questions from friends and neighbors in my building, I do not mind. But one lady on my floor is a Debby Downer sort. Always seeing negative. I mentioned I was going to ask my caseworker to look into rehab facilities for me, even for just a few days. I will feel better with a transition of sorts,
Well, then this lady gives me all the stories of her friend, or someone sister who went to a nursing home and never came home. I tried to explain that there is where people go for rehab, and that does not mean you are staying Nope..if I go to rehab I am not coming home.
Thank you for your support...I will show you.
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My husband was in a rehab after brain surgery for a bleed. It was great! He had therapy to get his balance and strength back. They even had a tent like thing to keep him in bed do he would not try to get up alone. The staff was wonderful, the food was good and the place was sparkling clean. If not for them I don't know if I would have been able to bring him home.

I think it is a good idea for you since you live alone. You would just need a few days to practice walking, getting in and out of bed (that was a hard one for me) getting your balance back.
 
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