Linda
Senior Member
- Location
- Central California foothills
Are you looking forward to Thanksgiving? Do you have plans? Besides missing all the TGs of the past with both my original family and the one my husband and I made, I don't mind Thanksgiving like I do the other holidays.
Last year was special as our 7 year old Swedish grand-daughter came over and spent a week with us in LA so she could experience a real Thanksgiving.
This year a 28 yr old niece, who is trying to get to know family, asked if she could spend it with us so we jumped on that. We only met her this summer and we just love her to death. One of our X-daughter-in-laws usually spends the day with us and that will probably be it. My brother likes to deep pit turkeys and roasts in a big deep pit we have outside. He delivers some of them to his kids in the valley but always comes back up here to eat dinner. Our oldest son who recently passed always spent TG with a local friend (actually, he was at that friend's house when he died) since they both liked to watch football. My husband and 2 of our son's don't watch any spectator sports. Our second oldest lives in Europe and won't be here. We have an open invitation to spend TG with our daughter as she and her hubby both have custody issues so they stay in the big city for TG. Our youngest son just married into a large Filipino family and they all get together for holidays and every time someone has a BD or a big moment in their life. If we wanted to we could tag along but I'd rather stay home during the fog season and let people come to me.
Last year was special as our 7 year old Swedish grand-daughter came over and spent a week with us in LA so she could experience a real Thanksgiving.