What do you first notice

What do you first notice when visiting someone else's house?

First let me say Im an antique and kitsch collector. When we go to each other's houses its normal to check out each other's stuff.
Its not considered rude to inspect things and pick them up and check them out. And ask questions.
I have found that people who are not like me will give you the side eye if you do this at their house.
If I go there I need to sneak peeks. :D

So to answer your question the first thing I notice is do you have anything interesting.
Then I notice if youre a fussbudget. Or not. Im comfortable either way. Your house. Your rules.
Ive been to houses where they had to clear off a chair so I could sit.
I dont care how clean your house is or if there is cat hair on the furniture.
I came to see you not your house.
 

If there are no children in the home, I like to see a neat and clean home. The TV room would be an exception. I have been into many homes. Some have been like a rats nest. Others were like the Queen lived there. My mom was a very fastidious cleaner. She would be up at the crack of dawn and never sat down until after lunch.
 
The smell!!!!!!!!!!!! After that I like to appreciate the layout. Is it spacious and beautiful or crowded or minimalist?
 
Friends sometimes say, "Excuse the mess", but I always say, "I didn't come to check up on your house, I came to see you".
 


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