I'm open minded as I said, and interested in hearing what everyone believes on this subject Debby, so please share your thoughts. It's stories like this that don't help my belief in these matters.
Here's what I think happens: When we die, the energy/spirit/soul (whatever you want to call the life that is 'us') separates from this body that we use to experience life, the world and relationships. We return to a 'pre-physical life' dimension where we rejoin our group whom we've moved through many lifetimes with. We may first experience floating up from our now dead body and seem to generally have less a feeling of loss and more a kind of curious interest in the things that are going on around our body.
The next thing apparently that happens is that you will feel a sensation of being pulled away from that scene and while some folks have described moving through a tunnel of sorts, other's seem to be more focused on being drawn towards a spot of light in the distance that also feels infinitely kind and gentle and loving and that feeling gets stronger the closer we get to it. It's been described as a consuming feeling of love that filled up every cell of that persons being and you will feel safer and more complete than you've ever felt in your life. You will feel like you've 'returned Home'.
Those who are 'old souls' go through the de-coupling from life relatively quickly and without a lot of assistance, but for those who are at the beginning of their 'experiences', help and comfort can come in the form of meeting family or friends who've gone before or guides whose sole purpose is to smooth the way as we adjust to our new state of being.
The 'place' we go to is designed also to soothe and ease the transition. What you expect is what you get in large part. For the Christian believer, his initial impression may well be 'pearly gates', etc., and to the atheist who loves the great outdoors, he may find himself being met by family in a beautiful mountain meadow. (Picture that great Robin Williams movie, 'What Dreams May Come'). People in other cultures experience a place that meets up with their expectations based on the kinds of experiences they have had in their lives. And as we adjust and begin to re-know who we are and where we are, those ideas may shift and change and melt away and our awareness begins to match up to a cosmological, inexplicably lovely state of place and being that most of those folks find difficult if not impossible to really explain.
There we go through a sort of de-briefing where we get to examine our own lives, the things we did, how we grew, the effect on others. But the whole experience has the feel of watching a movie, rather than causing a personal sense of condemnation or embarrassment. We examine it to see where we went wrong, how we could do better, all with a view to becoming a better and more loving person over time. And there are other 'people' there, who long ago went through their own life experiences and ultimately graduated to beings who guide those of us who are still spending time in this dimension and they act as teachers or guides. We spend however long is necessary, discussing, sharing, talking and understanding all of that past life stuff as well as the next step.
Then there comes a time when we've talked enough and become reenergized enough to make our next decision on how we can continue this evolution of spirit in a new life. No one stays because the whole purpose of life is to experience life and to know ourselves in every possible way, and a single transition through life will never give you all that you need to know, so we choose to do it yet again....and again.
What really turns me on about all of this and tells me it's not hoo-doo and craziness is the fact that certain elements of quantum physics support these ideas! And more phycists are beginning to question whether or not this material, physical world isn't some form of virtual reality or a sort of holographic reality or a form of matrix (as in the movie). And not only does it offer a science supported possibility/probability, but for those who are of a religious nature, the concept also embraces their ideas ideas except with a few adjustments. I like to think of the big religions as 'thumbnails' of what is really out there and what's really going on. You know, where you look at that little tiny box with all it's shapes and splotches of colour.......and then when you click on it and the Big Picture opens up and it's waaaaaay more than that thumbnail can convey!
Seriously, if you have an open mind and are willing to admit that there is no more evidence for any of the other theories than for this one, and then can see how there may(probably is) scientific processes that actually do support what I've come to accept, it's hard not to get excited by it. Because what this means is you don't have to be afraid to die and the people you've loved, you'll be with again!
Anyway, enough of that...time to get back to making dinner.....so mundane in the face of cosmological loveliness!
