November 17,1988,I quit my 5 pack a day habit cold turkey. Haven`t touched one since,but yes,sometimes I`ll catch a whiff and it smells soooo good. Other times it smells yucky.
We had this discussion last night. We got a call yesterday morning that my brother`s wife is hospitalized and not expected to survive. I called the rest of my siblings and we all headed to the hospital-a three hour drive for all of us but all coming from different directions. We spent the whole day in the ICU waiting room/lounge,supporting my brother and just waiting for updates. (As to what happened to her,I`ll try to make a long story shorter-she left for work on Wed. as usual but hadn`t been feeling well for a couple of days.
She is a hairdresser and works two hours from home but stayes with a friend. Apparently,on Thursday,the friend said she overslept and missed work. We were having the storm of the century here,so my brother told her to stay with her friend and he would come get her when the storm died down. She chose to drive home anyway. She crashed her car into a rain swollen ditch. Cars just kept driving by and no one stopped for a long time.
Finally a couple stopped and helped her back up the roadside-her car had filled with water and she was completely soaked. They called my brother from her cell phone and he went and picked her up. He wanted to take her straight to the hospital to get checked out-especially because her speech was garbled-but she insisted on going home for dry clothes first. When he took her in,they admitted her immediately as they thought she had had a stroke. She became sicker almost immediately and they determined she had sepsis. Her kidneys had shut down and they said they could not save her. That was when my brother finally called someone (his daughter).
When we walked in the doctor was there saying they had determined that she had E.coli-that was what started everything and resulted in sepsis. Last night they tried a blood transfusion and it apopears to have helped-this morning she had finally produced urine and responded to the doctor`s request to wiggle her toe. So we are hopeful) ANYWAY,my BIL,who is 77 and has smoked his whole life,had to keep going outside to have a cig. At dinner my sister said she had made an appointment for him with a pulmonologist and went with him so he couldn`t lie to her about what the doc said. The doc actually told him "You are obviously someone who isn`t affected by cigarette smoking. You have a clean bill of health." My sister was furious. She never expected a doctor to say that. So he continues to smoke. But not around my sister,as she has COPD from her years of smoking.