Why are you single?

:lofl:Well, just another guy that won't pick me:( I NEVER remember to ask for the money:sosad:

PS Dead on the mark about "baggage";)
 
umm, nevermind:(
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Oh Kim, I so want another dog:) What a cutie-pie:) They are such wonderful company!! And they don't talk with their mouth full, LOL!!
 
I'm fine with my dog. He doesn't mind eating the same thing every day and is always happy to see me. 7 pounds of unconditional love.
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Me too, only mine weighs about 90lbs more than yours. He's a great dog though. He sleeps on the bed in the guest bedroom(spoiled, I know) and every morning I hear him jump down off the bed. He comes in my room to see if I'm awake and if I just lay there and pretend to be asleep, he lays on the floor until I show signs of life. Pretty funny. Of course when I move, he's ready for me to get up and feed him.
 
I am perpetually single, I figure, because I am too honest for my own good, too smart for my own good and too unique.
I rarely find important things in common with other people, especially women. Of any age, race or ethnicity.

I can't relate to attractive women who have totally given up. Maybe they have no libido any more. But I understand it because so many of them
are on dating sites, just going through the motions to see if Mr. Perfecto shows up. (He won't.)
My favorite explanation for my poor luck is that in an earlier life I was very bad to women, so God is punishing me in this life!
Thanks a lot, God.
 
Initially I decided not to date because I was (and still am) raising a young son and I did not want any conflict and I spent all of my 40s without dating. Now that I am 52 I think I am just way too old to start dating again. Last time I dated I was in my late 30s - I wouldn't even know how to start. Anyways I firmly believe men prefer dating much younger women so I would have to start looking for a sexy 70-yr old guy out there (haha).
 
Speak of TV on Davey's thread, I think my biggest problem with life has been growing up watching TV and movies. Real life turned out to be opposite in too many ways. I admire those who either didn't watch tv/movies, or those that never bought into the lie many portrayed. I'm not saying life is horrible in every way, I'm just saying this silly woman fell for the fairytail, still have problems over it. I call myself a realist but yet I am still hoping for this miracle guy to walk into my life;)

Oh well, I am surviving without, and learning to accept things the way they are. Including the wonderful "aging" process. You're young to me, but I do know it's how we see ourselves that is most important. By the way, I've seen some sexy 70 year olds, but they are usually taken:sosad:and if they aren't, they just don't find me attractive:sosad:
 
Initially I decided not to date because I was (and still am) raising a young son and I did not want any conflict and I spent all of my 40s without dating. Now that I am 52 I think I am just way too old to start dating again. Last time I dated I was in my late 30s - I wouldn't even know how to start. Anyways I firmly believe men prefer dating much younger women so I would have to start looking for a sexy 70-yr old guy out there (haha).

a sexy 70-yr old guy??? hmmm


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Mirabilis, My son Michael married three times. Once at 19 and again at 23. He said he found them mentally too young and clinging. He was single for 10 years, and I worried that he would spend his life alone. At 34 he met the love of his life. My son said he liked that she could care for herself, and was mentally mature enough not to need someone else to think for her. She was 13 years older than him, and 3 years younger than I. They had to 6 great years together before an auto accident took her. After her death is when he moved back to our home. He said he could never love anyone again, and he would never marry again.
So what I saying is don't give up, or short change good men.:yes::eek:k:
 
You must be my twin! I am a 63 year old retired lady, introvert, Myers-Briggs INTP (borderline I/E). I cook all of my meals from scratch, too (low carb) and love ethnic foods. I understand that my personality type is only 1% of the population so it is great to encounter someone who might be the same personality type! I don't smoke or drink, either. I'm in your state, too (how cool!)
 


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