Women Working? Did it work?

More like telling it like it is...concise and on point.

Steinem and her ilk told my mother she was a failure for being a stay-at-home-Mom...and made millions preaching this garbage. I have nothing to apologize for in my above statements.
Really? I was a member of the National Organization for Women in my town and every woman in it was a stay-at-home mom. We were the ones who had time to meet with school boards and try to get them to change their career day program so that girls could find out they could be engineers and doctors as well as housewives and nurses. It was always about choice.

Before I got married I tried to go to the local business school and learn drafting. My father had already taught me how to use a T-square and design floor plans, I was told I only men could take those classes, I could choose between typing and short hand. I tried to get a job in a bank and I was told they never hired women, because, "men didn't trust women with their money." I worked in a department store for years and when the manager of my department retired they hired a 16 year old boy to be our boss, because "men won't take orders from women."

Here's the dictionary definition of a feminist. "A feminist is someone who supports equal rights for women. "

If you're not a feminist then you think women shouldn't have the same rights under our constitution.

Here's Gloria and one of her "ilk" talking about women who choose to stay home to raise their children.
 

Before Gloria was born, her mother had a nervous breakdown, and eventually became an invalid with delusional fantasies - afraid to be alone -couldn't hold a job, - years in and out of sanatoriums for thementally ill. Her parents separated when Gloria was 10 years old.

The impact of Gloria's childhood had a formative effect on her personality and development, and her opinions were influenced by the belief that doctors had a general apathy towards her mother. Those perspectives largely influlenced Steinem's pursuit of women's rights for social and political equality.

"A fish does not need a bicycle," if Steinem said that, isn't something she gets full credit for. It's more often attributed to Irina Dunn, who said, "A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle."

Apparently, Ms Steinem seemed to either need or want a man back when she was age 22, because she admits to having an abortion in 1957.

I am surprised and disappointed with you.
 
How come Steinem lives in a gold castle with a net worth of $20,000,000 while 98 percent of her readers HAVE to work minimum wage jobs and CAN'T stay at home with their children which is what they all really want to do.

Working women DID cause inflation. And there's no going back thanks to these Feminist Charlatans.
 

I am surprised and disappointed with you.
Really?

Since Gloria Steinem is a big part of this thread, I reseached her life to find out more about her.

Then, I posted facts which I had not previously known, because I thought they might have a certain relevance to Ms Steinem's ideologies.

I expressed no personal opinion of any kind.

If anyone finds facts disappointing, that isn't my problem or concern.
 
Really?

Since Gloria Steinem is a big part of this thread, I reseached her life to find out more about her.

Then, I posted facts which I had not previously known, because I thought they might have a certain relevance to Ms Steinem's ideologies.

I expressed no personal opinion of any kind.

If anyone finds facts disappointing, that isn't my problem or concern.

I'll stand with what I said.
 
Gloria Steinem is one person - not a whole movement.

like all people she has flaws - and like all people I probably don't agree with everything she said. I doubt there is any person who I agree with everything they said.

I do however agree with the goals of the feminist movement most of which are taken for granted these days.

and sure, we could look back with rose coloured glasses t o some suppossed utopia where everything was perfect before women went t o work - but that is a false premise - 1. it wasnt perfect for everyone at all and 2. lots of women did work - they just didnt have same pay or recognition or opportunities as men.
 
How come Steinem lives in a gold castle with a net worth of $20,000,000 while 98 percent of her readers HAVE to work minimum wage jobs and CAN'T stay at home with their children which is what they all really want to do.

Working women DID cause inflation. And there's no going back thanks to these Feminist Charlatans.

count me as one of these feminist charlatans

and you are right - there is no going back

thankfully women have choice and equal opportunity now - I sure don't want to go back to when that was not so.
 
I think most women want to be at home with their youngsters...not 'stuck'...and not 'forever'.


and they can. Feminist gains like maternity leave help them do so

and then they can go back to work when they want to.

and when they do go back they are not paid less than men for doing same job.

Choice and equal opportunity. Interesting that anyone would be against that. :rolleyes:
 
I guess I'm a feminist too. I was raised by a Mother who was never allowed to work in a job which utilized or recognized her true abilities. During my working years I was in a position that enabled me to open doors for women in whom I saw great potential. Men too.

On the other hand I have no use for man hating females who blame males for every perceived hardship or disappointment in their lives.
 
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Geez, I hate to see the fighting.....I do not know about Ms. Gloria and I am not going to look it up.

The only things we should have been worried about was paying the bills, taking care of the children. Yes, I am glad women do have the choice, are able to go to school if they want a career. Truth, is I did not have a career, so to speak, but I did have a job. I was good at it, I loved it up until a certain point.

You know that video, all over the internet, some mogul and his mistress. I did not know about my bosses doing this at first but when I found out I lost all respect for the companies and management. I wanted to be proud of my job, I could not knowing what was happening.

I left two jobs because this behavior was allowed. I liked the jobs but if you find something against your morals, it is time to go.
 
On the other hand I have no use for man hating females who blame males for every perceived hardship or disappointment in their lives.

I agree. Feminism isn't about man hating, it is about equal opportunity.
I wouldn't like any man hating women who blame men for every hardship or problem.
Just like I wouldn't like men who think women are to blame for such things.
 
What was once called day care is now early education. I volunteer at a child care centre run by my church. I also have two great grandchildren who have been in child care and I am very impressed by how much the littlies know and understand.

Children who do not have the experience of day care are actually disadvantaged when they start school. Apart from educational advancement they also miss out on developing social skills.
I stayed home with all three of my kids until they were in school. It was something we valued and we sacrificed to make it happen. Back then there were old-fashioned nursery schools that you could send your kids to once they were 2.5 years old and potty trained and they would go for two hours a day two or three days a week. That’s how my kids developed their social skills and many other kids.

If both parents work full-time, there is very little time at the end of the day to have much quality time with your children. By the time you make and eat dinner, bathe them it’s time for their bedtime since little kids go to bed early. Some people obviously have no choice, but to go to work and some people don’t have the patience to be home with their kids all day.

Once the kids are in school all day having a two income family is much easier. I’m glad that women have a lot more choices now than in the past. Once the kids are in school all day I can’t imagine how boring it would be to still be in the home. My mom was born in 1920 and once we were all in school, she went back to work full-time.
 
ForgetGloria for a few and think about this : when I married the first time the only paper my name was on was the marrige certificate....not the car, truck, any of the 3 house "we" bought, not on the checking account, not the saving account, nothing. I was educated in medicine but not in men. I was not allowed to work, or randomly go shopping, which brings us to the topic of every afternoon when he got home from work he would check the odometer on the vehicle left home to see if I'd left home. I was given 20 dollars a week for groceries...need I say more?

When he finally shot himself in the head one day, I learned he left nothing to me, that I had no property rights at all.

These types of situations are why women rose up on their hind legs.
 
Both human adult genders have an inner being social communication need to exercise, but with women as the center of family, that has generally evolved to be more prominent at an emotional level. Workplace jobs where people work as a team and with others, or with group community activities, exercises adult skills every one of us should have opportunity to experience in order to be within society, cooperative and useful. Since civilizations arose, people have fulfilled many working rolls that required good language interpersonal communication skills. Given this last century plus, many people have liberated their lives into glorious realm of life purposes only now possible with science and technology. And that has been true with both careers, activities, and hobbies giving purpose and value to our lives.

Thus, those women that arose in this era chasing such opportunities and dreams, ought to have just as much chance to pursue those worthwhile paths in their lives. And many women have done and accomplished so, and to society's credit, they have celebrated their successes that shows YES working can possibly be a big positive.

But then what about the many more without such new era dreams and ambitions? For example, those that just want to have a more traditional American family, maybe similar to the one they group up in even. That can work to. And both, in plenty of circumstances, may not work out, depending on the myriad situations and complexities of rapidly evolving modern era life.
 

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