Lashann
Senior Member
- Location
- Ontario Canada
We always lock our doors at night and often during the daytime as well. In addition, our complex is well lit at night, including at the front and back doors of each unit.
i figure if they're dumb enough to come in they better be prepared for whatever happens. it won't be pretty.My dad always said that locks are meant to keep the honest man honest. I lock up. Sure someone can get in if they want to, but one is safer with things locked.
I have met enough fools who don't take common-sense precautions because they want to prove their faith that "God will protect them."I always lock my doors, always have.
Why would anyone want to leave their doors unlocked at night? What is the purpose of that?
Besides the noise, it's impossible to clean up all those splatters & sticky bits.......It is so noisy when you have to shoot intruders, it is better to keep them out.
I am so very sorry about this horrific ordeal for you, your family, his victims and their families, your neighbors, your town, even your brother. So many lives deeply affected by this tragedy.In 1980 my brother shot one of his neighbors through the window while the man was watching Billy Graham. The door was locked. He shot the knob. That didn't work. So he knocked in the front window with the butt of his gun, went inside and shot two adult. They died, as did two more neighbors down the road. He shot them through the window also. Thus began the most horrid nightmare. It nearly destroyed my loving parents, and I had to help them cope. They were at his house at the time he sneaked out his gun. I mentioned this on this site years ago. It not only destroyed the lives of his victims and their families, some of whom we knew, but also destroyed my marriage - my husband was ashamed of me because of my brother's actions. It destroyed everything I believed in. Except for my sister none of my family was there for me, and I was the one who took care of the legal stuff, etc. I'm bringing this up now because I want to dispel any illusion that there is safety. One can take precautions, but when someone is determined and mentally unbalanced because of prescriptions drugs they can do anything. My brother is a case in point. He finally died in prison in 2016, and I no longer had to fear him having me killed.
Janice. Your post knocks the wind out of me.I've always locked doors. A few times years ago I accidentally left the keys in the lock- twice, neighbors alerted me to it, the other time the keys stayed in the door til I noticed them the next day.
It wasn't too many years ago I kept the bedroom window open a few inches at night in the warm weather... can't safely do that anymore.