JustBonee
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I can't imagine their lives being so dull that they'd have to talk about me.
First thing that came to my mind too ...
I can't imagine their lives being so dull that they'd have to talk about me.
Your brother did that too? Found out later my brother was jealous of me and my relationship with our mom. He had no reason to be, mom and I didn't get on that great. I quit trying to figure out what he was seeing. Sorry you and your sister had to endure that kind of pain.I learned many years ago that anyone even family can gossip about you and say things that aren't always true. My older brother was a great example of that. He was 11 yrs old when my sister was born and 13 yrs old when I was born. From as early as I can remember he said lies about me and my sister especially after he married. I believe it was his problem and not mine. He is gone now so hopefully he finally realizes the pain he caused me and my sister.
I can't believe how children who are raised by the same parents can turn out so different. When my brother passed away a few years ago he left everything to his daughter and nothing to his 2 sons who were very good to him. He was very wealthy and I can't understand him ignoring his 2 sons. Sad !Your brother did that too? Found out later my brother was jealous of me and my relationship with our mom. He had no reason to be, mom and I didn't get on that great. I quit trying to figure out what he was seeing. Sorry you and your sister had to endure that kind of pain.
Is it arrogant or even narcissistic to worry that others are talking about you?
that you might feature in their conversation. be the main topic even?
life experience has taught me that people do gossip. its naive to think they dont. and if you fall out of the loop they might feel more comfortable raising the issue of your shortcomings
" hypo is a sarcastic bastard"
"hypo spent too long in Asia"
"Hypo has found God now Look out He will try to convert us."
"i mean just look at hypos track record. Hes a classic quitter"
"what a lazy bastard he is. spends all day on the net"
that last is true unfort.
i know. im obsessed with my family reputation. How sinful. I should be only concerned with my reputation with God. shouldnt I.But why would you worry about what they think?
Well, you can still shoot for outliving themFrom about age 15 to 40. Things looked promising for me. The future bright.
But I didnt quite deliver. And a number of my siblings did much better in their careers than expected. Ive turned out somewhat of a disappointment in this regard
hey laraunfortunately, i do care, but i don't dwell long on it. the ones who gossip are the losers.
gossip causes cancer
LOVE IT!Not at all, I'm the most interesting member of the family so it seems logical that they would want to talk about me.