can you flirt when being married !

I was never a flirt, I would be really upset if my husband did that to me, so I certainly wouldn’t do that to him! I know one family that broke up because,the woman flirted n said her husband didn’t care, well he cared enough to walk out on her!
 

My wife used to flirt. If she knew how much I hated it she wouldn't have done it.

What are you trying to do when you do it? Piss me off?

Knock me back for saying this but it's mostly women who do it.
I agree, I see more women flirt n men ignore them, I always felt the only people ( men or women ) who flirted were very insecure n were just looking for attention.For me I don’t think being friendly is flirting.
 
If nobody is flirting or even (Heaven forbid) having sex with another person, how come most folks seem to be divorced? Almost like drunk driving and the assorted results. When they discuss the subject, everyone is "holier than thou". Never even glancing at the opposite sex or never downing more than one small glass of alcohol.

Who's making time with the girl or guy at the office, or pounding down drink after drink at the local watering hole? Must be those "other people" that we never know personally. I'm always waiting for the courageous poster who admits to being blasted at the local bar and still manages to get home safely or the person who's boffing the guy or girl at work but was never found out. These people must avoid internet forums.

For myself, I will confess to never having a drink, when driving or otherwise but in regards to sex, I'll let my 67 happy years with the same gal, speak for me but the details of our personal life will remain between ourselves.
 
I think we flirt to see if we are still attractive to the opposite sex.
Flirting can get out of control, leading to things it shouldn't.

I can't possibly see how an old wrinkled, gimp such as me would be attractive to a member of the opposite sex.

Oh well, I don't miss it, but I still enjoy eyeballing an attractive female.
 
I'd probably qualify as a bit of a flirt. I flirt with little kids, the 90-year-old bagger at Publix, the nice waiter, the guy who's x-raying my foot,...…. In other words, most of the time. But I'm like the old dog who chases cars......I wouldn't know what to do with one if I caught it.
Clearly we use the same definition of flirting.
Playful Banter !!!😎
 
According to all the definitions I've been able to find, plus my own understanding of the word, flirting is not the same thing as playful banter. We all engage in playful banter all the time, with the people at work, social friends, etc. That's not flirting. I think it has to have a sexual aspect to it.
 
According to all the definitions I've been able to find, plus my own understanding of the word, flirting is not the same thing as playful banter. We all engage in playful banter all the time, with the people at work, social friends, etc. That's not flirting. I think it has to have a sexual aspect to it.
In that case yes I sometimes flirt online but only jokingly . In real life, I dress attractively and hope to look good but not with the intention of attracting a new suitor. That would be incredibly mean and deceptive to my spouse and something I would NEVER do.

When my husband and I go out on a couples night to someone else’s house we are both fairly playful but never cross the line of being inappropriate.

We are not drinkers and don’t generally go to large parties unless it’s a family gathering.

Yeah. I definitely have the wrong definition of what flirting is and will reconsider it😧
 
When I was a lad, I remember having this big apple in my hand, when the most gorgeous girl in our school walked up to me, flirting, fluttering her eyes at me. I was dazzled, then she asked me for a bite of my apple.......then the cow run off with it. :LOL:
 
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Have never been very flirty and certainly wouldn't flirt with someone in a relationship. Hated it when one of my boyfriends did ...didn't date him long! He was Irish and I'm a redhead. He should've known better!
 
Exactly the words of Bill Clinton when he was asked what went on in the Oval Office with Monica.
And your point being?
He was caught with his pants down.
Are you trying to insinuate that there’s some type of connection?

What exactly are you suggesting?

You act like I’m trying to be a poster girl for infidelity.

Nothing like a disgruntled man whose been cheated on. 😏

Well you can BITE ME too. 🤓
 
If nobody is flirting or even (Heaven forbid) having sex with another person, how come most folks seem to be divorced? Almost like drunk driving and the assorted results. When they discuss the subject, everyone is "holier than thou". Never even glancing at the opposite sex or never downing more than one small glass of alcohol.

Who's making time with the girl or guy at the office, or pounding down drink after drink at the local watering hole? Must be those "other people" that we never know personally. I'm always waiting for the courageous poster who admits to being blasted at the local bar and still manages to get home safely or the person who's boffing the guy or girl at work but was never found out. These people must avoid internet forums.

For myself, I will confess to never having a drink, when driving or otherwise but in regards to sex, I'll let my 67 happy years with the same gal, speak for me but the details of our personal life will remain between ourselves.

Too funny! Does it count if I drove drunk a loooooong time ago? And then went home and mowed the lawn...
 

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