I agree, I see more women flirt n men ignore them, I always felt the only people ( men or women ) who flirted were very insecure n were just looking for attention.For me I don’t think being friendly is flirting.My wife used to flirt. If she knew how much I hated it she wouldn't have done it.
What are you trying to do when you do it? Piss me off?
Knock me back for saying this but it's mostly women who do it.
Clearly we use the same definition of flirting.I'd probably qualify as a bit of a flirt. I flirt with little kids, the 90-year-old bagger at Publix, the nice waiter, the guy who's x-raying my foot,...…. In other words, most of the time. But I'm like the old dog who chases cars......I wouldn't know what to do with one if I caught it.
In that case yes I sometimes flirt online but only jokingly . In real life, I dress attractively and hope to look good but not with the intention of attracting a new suitor. That would be incredibly mean and deceptive to my spouse and something I would NEVER do.According to all the definitions I've been able to find, plus my own understanding of the word, flirting is not the same thing as playful banter. We all engage in playful banter all the time, with the people at work, social friends, etc. That's not flirting. I think it has to have a sexual aspect to it.
Best post for a long time. L.O.L.Deleted
And who is being the instigator this time Camper?Best post for a long time. L.O.L.
Just flirting.And who is being the instigator this time Camper?
Or are you going to play innocent victim again like usual ?
In that case ..... BITE ME!!!Just flirting.
Exactly the words of Bill Clinton when he was asked what went on in the Oval Office with Monica.Clearly we use the same definition of flirting.
Playful Banter !!!
And your point being?Exactly the words of Bill Clinton when he was asked what went on in the Oval Office with Monica.
If nobody is flirting or even (Heaven forbid) having sex with another person, how come most folks seem to be divorced? Almost like drunk driving and the assorted results. When they discuss the subject, everyone is "holier than thou". Never even glancing at the opposite sex or never downing more than one small glass of alcohol.
Who's making time with the girl or guy at the office, or pounding down drink after drink at the local watering hole? Must be those "other people" that we never know personally. I'm always waiting for the courageous poster who admits to being blasted at the local bar and still manages to get home safely or the person who's boffing the guy or girl at work but was never found out. These people must avoid internet forums.
For myself, I will confess to never having a drink, when driving or otherwise but in regards to sex, I'll let my 67 happy years with the same gal, speak for me but the details of our personal life will remain between ourselves.