What is it about the opposite sex do you notice first...

[funsearcher!]

Smile and smiling eyes

 

[HoneyNut]

I haven't analyzed it but it partly depends on the context of the meeting, if a guy is behind a counter I pretty much only notice the face, but if it is a whole-body-visible social situation, the shoulders and chest get my first glance, followed by the face.

 

[Mike]

Smile and then intelligence.

Mike

 

[Patek24]

Need I say more?

 

[wcwbf]

Legs. I've always been a leg man.

i'm a leg lady... nothing beats a great pair of legs!

https://i.pinimg.com/236x/2f/7b/fa/2f7bfa42348a5d742f1b17f4c01f43d5--muscular-legs-perfect-legs.jpg

 

[win231]

These days, the first thing I do is verify that they are really the opposite sex.

 

[Pinky]

Allover appearance, and how he treats people is very important to me (restaurant staff, etc).

 

[JaniceM]

These days, the first thing I do is verify that they are really the opposite sex.

These days, how do you do that with any certainty?

 

[win231]

These days, how do you do that with any certainty?

I dunno. Maybe take a closer look?

 

[JaniceM]

I dunno. Maybe take a closer look?

My father was never one to make crude or vulgar remarks, but when long hair become popular for young adults he said the only way to tell the boys from the girls was to 'look at their front.' Even that wouldn't work these days!!

 

[win231]

My father was never one to make crude or vulgar remarks, but when long hair become popular for young adults he said the only way to tell the boys from the girls was to 'look at their front.' Even that wouldn't work these days!!

HAHA. He was being vulgar; he just found a way to sorta hide it. I think that's what's called "A veiled insult." My mom did the same thing.

 

[Nosy Bee-54]

Her chest, to make sure she's breathing, of course.

You could have fooled me! I thought it was because a man never outgrows the need for milk.

 

[horseless carriage]

Her Jeep

Do you know? A lady once said to me...............................

"Excuse me, but I do love the colours of your MG. She laughed when I said thank you, but MG really isn't an acronym for: My Girlfriend.

 

[Warrigal]

I'm married. I don't gaze at men that I meet in the flesh, but in the movies I like a fresh face, curly hair and a strong back and chest.

Turn offs are scowling faces and bodies that have been acquired in the gym rather than as the result of their occupations.

 

[Marie5656]

The walking away view

 

[Warrigal]

These days, how do you do that with any certainty?

Use the Crododile Dundee method?

 

[sch404]

Boobs. Is that so wrong?

 

[DaveA]

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I'd be concerned that she'd constantly have chest colds leading to generally poor health.

 

[Jamala]

What a great thread, I feel I know many of you already! Everyone gazes at the opposite sex, or the same sex if you are so inclined. That’s the reason we have peripheral vision

 

[C50]

I think first thing I notice is a healthy look. That doesn't necessarily mean trim and buff, more of a general appearance of healthiness.

 

[dseag2]

That I'm not interested.

Please don't feel sad for me, Lois @Lewkat. I have had a great life with my hubby of 30 years. Nothing at all to be sad about.

 

[oldpop]

Attitude

 

[senior chef]

Before I notice anything else, I take note of how feminine she is. I love the whole package: nails, long hair (natural colors), makeup, and feminine clothing/shoes.
If she has tattoos, unusual piercings, or combat boots, I ignore her.

 

[Gary O']

What is it about the opposite sex do you notice first

Ohhhhh....I dunno....

 

[Warrigal]

I'd be concerned that she'd constantly have chest colds leading to generally poor health.

And the inevitable bad back.