Sassycakes
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Their Personality and what they are wearing.
What is it about the opposite sex do you notice first...
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Farrah Nuff
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LadyEmeraude
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I notice appearance and then the eyes and smile...
Farrah Nuff
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If their perceived gender is a good fit for them.
Not a dealbreaker, if not but still, a little nicer.
Not a dealbreaker, if not but still, a little nicer.
Disgustedman
Senior Member
Face, eyes, hair. That's what was my focus when young and, interested.
Clothing (or lack) afterward.
Clothing (or lack) afterward.
First I notice how attracted I am to their physical appearance. Hair, grooming, make-up... things that show that they care for themselves. Then I notice features - eyes, smile, etc... and I look for the signs of kindness. Kindness is the most important feature to me.
RadishRose
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Hair.
RandomName
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Straight Male here. I notice clothes and how they fit. Hair. Face. Body attractiveness (can be chubby, skinny, whatever, but the body can be attractive or not, just depends on how it is arranged, and how she dresses it up.)
Self-confidence.
Some traditionally unattractive women seem 'hot' to me.
Long legs are very nice!
Some overweight young women with pink or green hair turn me on, but I have never approached one. since I am way older.
Self-confidence.
Some traditionally unattractive women seem 'hot' to me.
Long legs are very nice!
Some overweight young women with pink or green hair turn me on, but I have never approached one. since I am way older.
hearlady
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- N Carolina
Grooming. Just look like you give a sh$t when you leave the house.
Teacher Terry
Well-known Member
Definitely eyes and smile.
jujube
SF VIP
A good smile and a twinkle in the eye.
It didn't matter much to me when I was younger, but now that I'm going to the gym on a regular basis I've noticed that my eyes linger on some of the body builder types. Not overly muscled but ... well, they've been working out for quite awhile and the results are definitely attractive! Oh yeah, also a nice smile. 
Gaer
"Angel whisperer"
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- New Mexico U.S.A.
Still his eyes and smile UNLESS he has a deep, romantic, masculine voice! If I hear a voice like that,
Woo-Hoo! I might follow him around for a few minutes!
Woo-Hoo! I might follow him around for a few minutes!
The nicest voice I've ever heard is Morgan Freeman. He could recite a laundry list and sound so great!
I notice the same, but look for that elusive twinkle that shows a curiosity to know more about...me. Wins me over every time.
Am I the only one into physique?It didn't matter much to me when I was younger, but now that I'm going to the gym on a regular basis I've noticed that my eyes linger on some of the body builder types. Not overly muscled but ... well, they've been working out for quite awhile and the results are definitely attractive! Oh yeah, also a nice smile.
I did add a nice smile!
Lilac
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- Flyover Country
First thing I notice is his manner. Is he confident, but not conceited & laid back with sharp but gentle eyes. Can he take care of himself & stand up to me?
I found one & he's a keeper! And he still puts up with me after all these years!
I found one & he's a keeper! And he still puts up with me after all these years!
Purwell
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So am I but I can’t keep up with them nowadays!
Duster6
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- Mid-Atlantic, USA
Eyes
spectratg
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- Adamstown, MD
Yep I concur completely!
boliverchadsworth
Member
there "maybe" an aura about them, posture gesters pheremones sparkle vibe- a want need maybe ....seems like you need to have an insight for the sort of thing...(for me) so visual audio smell observence etc