CallMeKate
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Thank you for sharing that, @hollydolly . I can't even imagine how horrible that must have been for you. I don't know the answer... but bottom line (my personal opinion only) has always been that some level of mental illness must have already been there. I've always based that thinking on exactly what you said... people have horrid childhoods and don't end up as murderers. It disturbs me that often with mass murderers, school shooters, etc. we hear "oh, they were abused as a child" as if that somehow makes it alright or excuses it.how does this happen ?...Don't get me wrong, I know it happens that's well documented, but how ?.. really I suppose it's rhetorical question because no one person could answer this.. but as many people who've been here for a long time already know.. I had a particularly horrendous childhood.. which included everything but murder.. I'll leave it at that..my siblings and I also watched while our mother was badly abused.. yet we're not murderers, we're not drug or alcohol or child abusers,... That's not to say we're not scarred by our childhoods.. and that as children we were angry.. yes we were and we got into fights with other kids, we took our anger and yes, rage.. out on other kids in playground fights ...but kill someone ?.. even think of killing someone.. ?.. No.. never crossed our minds ( aside from a 1/2 serious discussion between us as kids of what we might do to our father )