Facebook portrayals

Haven't read all the posts.

I don't belong to Facebook ,, but our oldest son does.
Recently I took a peek at what is on Facebook,,, some interesting ads, etc.

Had bumped into an old friend,, found her in Facebook & caught up n her life.
Did that with few other folks hubby & I know.

Does that make me a bad person? :eek:

I would never post anything using my son's account there.
 

Sliverfox said:
Haven't read all the posts.

I don't belong to Facebook ,, but our oldest son does.
Recently I took a peek at what is on Facebook,,, some interesting ads, etc.

Had bumped into an old friend,, found her in Facebook & caught up n her life.
Did that with few other folks hubby & I know.

Does that make me a bad person? :eek:

I would never post anything using my son's account there.
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Only you know , if you’re a bad person silverfox ……
its good to catch up with old friends …..enjoy FB on your own level….
 
oldaunt said:
FB is in the middle of paying out a very large cash settlement for losing a lawsuit over selling information from their customers.
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My impression is that there is far more spamming of groups, stealing of identities and fishing than there as before. Almost as though no one was trying to prevent it. Now when someone I already am friends with shows up asking to be my friend again I just ignore it and when I get hacked I just hope others will do the same. The water is full of pirates yet you can still have a little fun out there.
 

charry said:
there-are a lot of people on FB and other sites, that just want attention, and exaggerate a lot ,
and others can sense that in the poster …..
but if they are happy with making themselves popular, or thinking they are ,?
then good luck to them…….
they read what I post , but if they don’t like or get jealous , well that’s tough……
im just happy for people , who are happy with themselves……
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I’m ok with people who like to seek attention. Most times they are very funny & entertaining and I believe all people are wanting attention or they wouldn’t be on a social network to begin with.

I’m talking about people in general.
Not everyone wants to be around people. Introverts are some of them. If you purchase a house away from people, chances are you like your privacy. Some people take that as snobbery and respond according. If you try and put your best foot forward, they shoot you down. Then when you’re down they poke fun of you for that too.

What happened was beyond hateful

Recently I had someone ask me about my house and I sent a few pictures. They haven’t spoken to me since. It’s not a friend, just an acquaintance but still makes me wonder what I did wrong.

I’m not good at corresponding with others. It’s never been my strong suite. Once in a while I forget that fact but others will sure enough, let me know.

I guess forum life is similar to real life in that everyone has their own issues and their own opinions and moods just like everyone else and people do judge, compare and segregate with ones they feel most connected with.
 
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PeppermintPatty said:
I’m ok with people who like to seek attention. Most times they are very funny & entertaining and I believe all people are wanting attention or they wouldn’t be on a social network to begin with.

I’m talking about people in general.
Not everyone wants to be around people. Introverts are some of them. If you purchase a house away from people, chances are you like your privacy. Some people take that as snobbery and respond according. If you try and put your best foot forward, they shoot you down. Then when you’re down they poke fun of you for that too.

What happened was beyond hateful

Recently I had someone ask me about my house and I sent a few pictures. They haven’t spoken to me since. It’s not a friend, just an acquaintance but still makes me wonder what I did wrong.

I’m not good at corresponding with others. It’s never been my strong suite. Once in a while I forget that fact but others will sure enough, let me know.

I guess forum life is similar to real life in that everyone has their own issues and their own opinions and moods just like everyone else and people do judge, compare and segregate with ones they felt most connected with.
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I respect and appreciate how you feel patty x
Most of my friends are peoples people and they don’t understand the way I am x
But we are all different !
i was once told that I had a phobia of people and I thought that was funny but it’s very true !!!
 
charry said:
I respect and appreciate how you feel patty x
Most of my friends are peoples people and they don’t understand the way I am x
But we are all different !
i was once told that I had a phobia of people and I thought that was funny but it’s very true !!!
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I do understand. I’ve got a huge phobia of people !!! It’s nice meeting someone who can relate. You’ve made my day. 🌞

I just wanted to whine about it for a bit. 🤣
 
Rose65 said:
I find it intriguing how people feel almost obliged to give an image of themselves on social media as having a perfect exciting life.
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My perception of Facebook is the same as yours. So many people are putting on fake facades for other fakers who agree to be in their mutual admiration society. They don’t engage in any logical debate on issues of importance and will unfriend you immediately if you mention anything other than their fake wonderful life, kids and homes.
 
Rose65 said:
Most on FB are not real friends after all. How is it people have hundreds of 'friends' anyway?

I post very little now, I see my life as nobody's business. I message privately to those I trust.
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I have wondered if it is a contest to see how many "friends" one could have. I have a total of 14, they are family or people who are actually friends.
 
TabbyAnn said:
My perception of Facebook is the same as yours. So many people are putting on fake facades for other fakers who agree to be in their mutual admiration society. They don’t engage in any logical debate on issues of importance and will unfriend you immediately if you mention anything other than their fake wonderful life, kids and homes.
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Do you think social media is creating more pretentious people ? We don’t actually know who is behind the screens. We don’t actually know where people are from. We don’t actually see facial expressions , body language or tone of voice to gage if what they’re saying is true? Are we deluding ourselves when we socialize this way ?
Is it creating an unhealthy culture of pretentiousness?

If you have friends and family you actually know on Facebook and other social platforms then this doesn’t apply to you.
 
My life revolves around spending time with my wonderful wife Janet and Our MMM Magnificent Miss Molly she is a 6 YOA black & tan Dachshund with a mind of her own. She is in charge of every part of our lives! I am an 82, soon to be 83 YOA male Retired Law Enforcement Officer with more than 42 year's service in that profession. I retired, sadly in 2008. Unfortunately, due to many health conditions I am home bound. I only go to Dr.s appointments some family gatherings etc.

My other forms of entertainment are, Facebook American Thinker, You Tube, Simple Solitaire and my newest and fastly becoming my favorite, Senior Forums! and of course Televisión!!
 
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