@Supernatural
That is really a terrible situation, and one that has gone on for so very long, despite all the efforts your husband made to deal with it, and that you have had to continue to live through and to try to resolve.
I understand that level of frustration and anxiety, which effects our abilities to function well.
I find things like that, very upsetting, as well, so I can understand that, which you wrote out, here.
I hope you will get some helpful action, from contacting the OFG..... next week. I sure know how difficult, each added step to this sort of thing, truly is.