Should women be allowed to go topless?

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You're preaching to the choir here. I see nothing wrong with any advancement of women's rights, and I totally understand what it's about, and I certainly have no desire to diminish any of it. In addition, I am not even advocating that women everywhere should do it. All I am doing is asking the question: Is it fair to allow a man to walk around without a top on but not a woman? If she chooses not to, that's fine, but it seems like she shouldn't be discriminated against because of her gender. Perhaps it doesn't matter a hill of beans to you, and that's fine too. It's just a question that is popping up in state's courts, and there are age old laws being questioned because societies norms are always changing.

To open it up a bit, based in part in what you have said here, and questions you mention being asked in state courts. Is it fair to say its only being raised in courts or similar (debates) due to how some in society view the differences of female and male chests, and nothing more than that?

Is it even a gender debate, as such? If it was possible to put gender to one side for a moment, if that is ever possible, is it more of a debate on how chests are perceived. Perceived by both sexes. Perception of both sexes towards the female chest in the dock here?
 
To open it up a bit, based in part in what you have said here, and questions you mention being asked in state courts. Is it fair to say its only being raised in courts or similar (debates) due to how some in society view the differences of female and male chests, and nothing more than that?

Is it even a gender debate, as such? If it was possible to put gender to one side for a moment, if that is ever possible, is it more of a debate on how chests are perceived. Perceived by both sexes. Perception of both sexes towards the female chest in the dock here?
Well, if I am understanding your question here, I do think that perception by the individual and society at large is how the laws came to be established in the first place. We seem to have been raised in a culture where female breasts are perceived as something sec-tual and should be covered up. In other countries, perhaps not so much.
In some countries, men even want almost every part of a woman covered up because they don't want any temptation to arise (Or at least that's my understanding). Nevertheless it is a matter of control, and unfair to women (At least in my view).
If we had been raised in a culture where men and women's chests were viewed the same, most likely the laws singling out women would never have been put in place.
So to me, the question really comes down to: "Are they really different" or "Why do we see them as different". I think it's because we were just raised to think that way. Some women have rather flat chests and some are more pronounced, and men are they same way. It's just that we treat them different based on gender. Quite frankly, if a person was purely androgenous looking from the waist up, and you couldn't tell if it was a man or a woman, and the exposed chest was just average size for a man or woman, and there was no hair there, we probably wouldn't know if they should be arrested or not.
 
If women were to go topless in the US in public women would be empowered IMO. Also it would be a powerful way to teach MEN to behave. If they misbehaved there are laws that punish lewd stuff some men are more than capable of. I am wondering how many women would "test" this in the area they live. I am for going topless for "anyone".
 
If women were to go topless in the US in public women would be empowered IMO. Also it would be a powerful way to teach MEN to behave. If they misbehaved there are laws that punish lewd stuff some men are more than capable of. I am wondering how many women would "test" this in the area they live. I am for going topless for "anyone".
Ontario passed a law that allowed women the right to go topless back in 1998. I had no desire to go topless. Besides my girls getting sunburnt , I would absolutely hate that type of attention and oddly enough I never saw any other women go topless either. Men might be perfectly ok with it but the majority of women aren’t. They prefer covering up.
 
If women were to go topless in the US in public women would be empowered IMO. Also it would be a powerful way to teach MEN to behave. If they misbehaved there are laws that punish lewd stuff some men are more than capable of. I am wondering how many women would "test" this in the area they live. I am for going topless for "anyone".
Personally, I don't think it would be that much different from the mini skirts, the micro-minis, and string bikinis, or spandex. Men have had to learn that just because you can admire something doesn't mean you have any rights to anything beyond that.
Fortunately, the younger generation is being taught that there can be severe consequences for stepping over that line without permission, including not just jail time, but being labeled a sex offender which could stay with them for life.
As with many things in life, it all comes down to the interpretation. If something is forbidden, we tend to want it more. In many tribal communities in Africa and New Guinea, prior to the arrival of church influence, women's breasts were not covered, and I can't say for certain, but I think the men there just viewed them as a functional part of the body for suckling babies. I don't think they were interpreted the way we have been taught to.
 
Ontario passed a law that allowed women the right to go topless back in 1998. I had no desire to go topless. Besides my girls getting sunburnt , I would absolutely hate that type of attention and oddly enough I never saw any other women go topless either. Men might be perfectly ok with it but the majority of women aren’t. They prefer covering up.

Of course this is the majority of womens' view especially in the US and countries with similar mores. BUT, it is accepted and comfortable in many countries/areas also. I have this feeling that there is less secksual crime with those that allow exposure. There are 6 States in the US that allow women to go topless, and it looks like the trend is growing.
 
Of course this is the majority of womens' view especially in the US and countries with similar mores. BUT, it is accepted and comfortable in many countries/areas also. I have this feeling that there is less secksual crime with those that allow exposure. There are 6 States in the US that allow women to go topless, and it looks like the trend is growing.
All true but we can’t just eliminate our cultural background. That’s what makes us who we are. Here in the western world we do have some unusual ideas and beliefs. I hope the topless thing works for you.

Since people want what they can’t have. Being topless might take away some of the creepy behaviour of people feeling they need to hide or suppress their curious behaviour.

Look what happened to the Catholic Church. It’s just one example.
 
All true but we can’t just eliminate our cultural background. That’s what makes us who we are. Here in the western world we do have some unusual ideas and beliefs. I hope the topless thing works for you.

Since people want what they can’t have. Being topless might take away some of the creepy behaviour of people feeling they need to hide or suppress their curious behaviour.

Look what happened to the Catholic Church. It’s just one example.
LOL. I couldn't care less what happens. I'm 71 and it takes a miracle to turn me on. :LOL:
 
I think we're being treated like silly kids being handed one stupid distraction after another that takes our attention away from what is really going wrong in this world. Not me. I'm focused.
 
Well, it's not about that. It is about a right given to males, but not to females. What is the advantage of a man walking around without a shirt. Perhaps because he is hot, or he wants to get a tan, but shouldn't that apply to women as well?
I might have thought this way once but I am less inclined these days to want this right. In 2000 Hubby and I were on a tour in Egypt. As we bussed our way to various tourist sites I often observed men labouring in the heat doing road works. Not for them were the luxuries of mechanisation. They were sweating profusely using picks and shovels. They were shirtless and I pitied them. It brought home to me why men were given license to remove their upper body clothing but women were not.

I know that times are different for most of the world and that western culture is now more tolerant of partial nudity on beaches. I think it must be very liberating to swim totally naked in the sea or a river but it is not for me.
 
What equal rights means to a woman is subjective, which is the whole purpose of this discussion. If you are told what it is supposed to mean to you by others, there really isn't much point in having your own brain. JMO.
And you, as a man, are an authority on what equal rights mean to women? I think not, Sir.
 

Ok...ok... bring on the topless … I want to learn that dance!
In PNG tribal customs require young men to secure brides from outside the tribe. They must offer what is known as 'bride price" to the bride's family. The groom's family want a girl who is strong and healthy, who will bear many sons. Effectively, it is a cattle market based on physicality. Small, high breasts are favoured over larger saggy ones because youth is important. It is in the interest of both families that these assets are on display.
 
And you, as a man, are an authority on what equal rights mean to women? I think not, Sir.

Good grief.
I never said that, and I have no idea where you came up with that absurd notion. You totally misread what I said.
I said "What equal rights means to a woman is subjective". That means that it is subject to that woman's point of view.
I went on to say that if you are told what it means to you by others, there's no point in having your own brain.
 
Blah. Unlike men, me having to look at two big lumps of jiggling fat and mammary tissue hanging off someones chest is lose my lunch territory. Sorry. I dunno. Maybe it's because I have them and know what they are. Big sweat glands. Ick.
 
Good grief.
I never said that, and I have no idea where you came up with that absurd notion. You totally misread what I said.
I said "What equal rights means to a woman is subjective". That means that it is subject to that woman's point of view.
I went on to say that if you are told what it means to you by others, there's no point in having your own brain.

And this is how it often goes, which is why I'm replying less often to or starting threads. Once you decide to post anything, be prepared for incoming. People misinterpret your meaning and read into what's not there, and then they're off and running. It can and does get ugly.

I know what you meant when you started this thread, and it's been twisted to and fro and has given me a headache. I think I'll take off my shirt and go sit in the backyard. I need some fresh air.
 
And this is how it often goes, which is why I'm replying less often to or starting threads. Once you decide to post anything, be prepared for incoming. People misinterpret your meaning and read into what's not there, and then they're off and running. It can and does get ugly.

I know what you meant when you started this thread, and it's been twisted to and fro and has given me a headache. I think I'll take off my shirt and go sit in the backyard. I need some fresh air.
Lol. Thanks. Maybe I will take your advice, and do the same. I think from now on, I'd better stick to lighter stuff. Enjoy the fresh air.
 
Well, if I am understanding your question here, I do think that perception by the individual and society at large is how the laws came to be established in the first place.
To some degree I see how these laws are established through perception by the individual and society at large, as you now say. I think, when it comes to our elected law makers, are they there to make laws based on the perceptions and preferences of society at large, or by ignoring the electorate and making laws on their own perceptions. Maybe a mix of both, but it would depend on the law maker.

We seem to have been raised in a culture where female breasts are perceived as something sec-tual and should be covered up. In other countries, perhaps not so much.
I see the differences here and in other countries.

In some countries, men even want almost every part of a woman covered up because they don't want any temptation to arise (Or at least that's my understanding). Nevertheless it is a matter of control, and unfair to women (At least in my view).
I see the same. Those countries potentially never pulled themselves out of the dark ages because of that. I don't see it simply as removing unwanted temptation. It's about control of women and all aspects of their lives.

If we had been raised in a culture where men and women's chests were viewed the same, most likely the laws singling out women would never have been put in place.
I think similar.

So to me, the question really comes down to: "Are they really different" or "Why do we see them as different". I think it's because we were just raised to think that way. Some women have rather flat chests and some are more pronounced, and men are they same way. It's just that we treat them different based on gender. Quite frankly, if a person was purely androgenous looking from the waist up, and you couldn't tell if it was a man or a woman, and the exposed chest was just average size for a man or woman, and there was no hair there, we probably wouldn't know if they should be arrested or not.
Which then shows there are double standards at play within society. There because of society's over sexualisation of the female chest? Maybe even there because some have somthing to gain from the over sexualisation of the female chest? We have only got to look at some advertisements that play on this and use this to sell to both genders. Some societies might dig a hole for themselves that they can't get out of, or at least not within one or two generations. It all goes towards perpetuating double standards. It will take a long time to get out of this over sexualisation, particularly when there is money to be made. It all goes towards getting in the way when any debate on laws of this type crops up.

It really is a complex thing; far more complex than many here have put forward. But it seems to be complex for the wrong reasons. Some of the photos posted here make me think there are some males and females that I would prefer to see covered up, but in a free society I personally think it should be left to the individual, but with certain responsibilities. If we don’t like what we see, for whatever reason, we have the opportunity to look away. Being able to look away is an amazing concept that some seem to forget about. They would prefer some type of ‘control’ to be put in place instead.

Then there is the thought of who should be debating these controls regarding woman. The predominate male law makers, or a group of female only lawmakers, where males have no say in the matter. If a law of this kind needs debating, I can’t help wondering whether for women at least, it should only be women deciding on the law. For me personally though if a law was being debated regarding a man, I would want a more balanced approach. I put my hands up and admit that women may think of something that I as a man would never have thought about. And that additional perspective of a woman is required.

Whether we like it or not, it seems that a female chest is far more sexualised that a man’s or so it seems from my perspective in my society. There may be some women here who feel the opposite is true. Then there might be the thoughts and opinions of women who ‘prefer’ women sexually, what would they say about it all. Would they want female chests to be covered. Has anyone even thought to ask them.

I don’t see any resolution of the debate anytime soon. On this issue, it will depend on prevailing attitudes and values of each society and its willingness to address issues of gender equality, gender freedoms as a whole, as in freedoms of the collective gender, and an individual’s freedoms.
 
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Personally, I don't think it would be that much different from the mini skirts, the micro-minis, and string bikinis, or spandex. Men have had to learn that just because you can admire something doesn't mean you have any rights to anything beyond that.
Fortunately, the younger generation is being taught that there can be severe consequences for stepping over that line without permission, including not just jail time, but being labeled a sex offender which could stay with them for life.
As with many things in life, it all comes down to the interpretation. If something is forbidden, we tend to want it more. In many tribal communities in Africa and New Guinea, prior to the arrival of church influence, women's breasts were not covered, and I can't say for certain, but I think the men there just viewed them as a functional part of the body for suckling babies. I don't think they were interpreted the way we have been taught to.

For some reason my thoughts go back to the fierce and brave Warrior Women of ancient Britain. Not that I was there at the time, contrary to some occasional popular belief.

Women fighting bare chested to inspire other warriors and to intimidate the enemy. Even to show off the women's worrior status. Maybe a different kind of sexualisation going on there? The sexualisation of intimidation? To defeat a common enemy?
 
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To some degree I see how these laws are established through perception by the individual and society at large, as you now say. I think, when it comes to our elected law makers, are they there to make laws based on the perceptions and preferences of society at large, or by ignoring the electorate and making laws on their own perceptions. Maybe a mix of both, but it would depend on the law maker.


I see the differences here and in other countries.


I see the same. Those countries potentially never pulled themselves out of the dark ages because of that. I don't see it simply as removing unwanted temptation. It's about control of women and all aspects of their lives.


I think similar.


Which then shows there are double standards at play within society. There because of society's over ******isation of the female chest? Maybe even there because some have somthing to gain from the over ******isation of the female chest? We have only got to look at some advertisements that play on this and use this to sell to both genders. Some societies might dig a hole for themselves that they can't get out of, or at least not within one or two generations. It all goes towards perpetuating double standards. It will take a long time to get out of this over ******isation, particularly when there is money to be made. It all goes towards getting in the way when any debate on laws of this type crops up.

It really is a complex thing; far more complex than many here have put forward. But it seems to be complex for the wrong reasons. Some of the photos posted here make me think there are some males and females that I would prefer to see covered up, but in a free society I personally think it should be left to the individual, but with certain responsibilities. If we don’t like what we see, for whatever reason, we have the opportunity to look away. Being able to look away is an amazing concept that some seem to forget about. They would prefer some type of ‘control’ to be put in place instead.

Then there is the thought of who should be debating these controls regarding woman. The predominate male law makers, or a group of female only lawmakers, where males have no say in the matter. If a law of this kind needs debating, I can’t help wondering whether for women at least, it should only be women deciding on the law. For me personally though if a law was being debated regarding a man, I would want a more balanced approach. I put my hands up and admit that women may think of something that I as a man would never have thought about. And that additional perspective is of a woman is required.

Whether we like it or not, it seems that a female chest is far more ******ised that a man’s or so it seems from my perspective in my society. There may be some women here who feel the opposite is true. Then there might be the thoughts and opinions of women who ‘prefer’ women ******ly, what would they say about it all. Would they want female chests to be covered. Has anyone even thought to ask them.

I don’t see any resolution of the debate anytime soon. It depends on this issue will depend on prevailing attitudes and values of each society and its willingness to address issues of gender equality, gender freedoms as a whole, as in freedoms of the collective gender, and an individual’s freedoms.
Very well stated commentary and great points. Of course, this is coming from a male perspective, so please keep that in mind, but I think a woman's body is simply more attractive than a man's. Not in a sec-tual way, but her skin is smoother, legs more shapely, and shapely hips that a man generally doesn't have, and usually more attractive breasts. The female form has been admired in art for centuries moreso than man, I think primarily for those reasons.
However, I think men need to be taught from a young age, that women are not s*x objects. Yes, they may have beautiful bodies, but there is a person inside that body that needs to be respected and admired for who she is, and not for how she looks. For too long males had had liberties and taken liberties at the expense of women, and young men need to be taught that needs to stop. Not only is it disrespectful, but it could land them in jail and be labeled as a s*x offender.
Anyway, those are just my feelings about it, and it may be a bit off topic, but most threads go there anyway.
 
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