The one thing here about old people being looked on as "old has beens" that just dodder about the place,
I feel really useless as i walk out of my 2 acre garden close the gates and look at the house and think "i own every brick every blade of grass" and again when i fill the car up with fuel and here comments ref the make of my car,
With age comes experience and the likes of myself "old farts" have seen the results of "no work" & can't get credit to buy this and that etc,
Also how to see who's trying to get what they can out of what "the old codgers have".
I dont concern myself with what anyone thinks, and i remember i interviewed a person once for a vacancy i was looking to fill,
When i asked about their own finance ie do you own your own car, home, how many kids do you have, how many times have you been married!!!!!!
The person started to feel "like a young codger" and im sure they felt a little jab in the pocket when i said the reason ive asked those questions is because before you spend my companies money i want to know how you've spent your own, do you think you've spent well???
It's very easy to spend the companies cash.
The person i was interviewing lived i few doors down from us and i'd watched him grow up "married once, devorced with two kids lived with a second partner = 0ne more kid & then moved back with mum, grow twice the size of most men and thought he was some great catch,
When i asked my final question he looked shocked,
"Question"
Do you know your nieghbours? And what was the name of the fourth nieghbour up from your mums house?
Reply,
I get on with all our nieghbours and the fourth ones up from us are some older people and i dont know them as they've not lived there long,
I'd lived in that house for 27 years (and before his mum) had moved into her home and it was us he'd stollen a hanging basket from outside the front door for a prank.
So sometimes the old codger living down the street proberly owns everything he/she has ref items but for sure these old codgers do own in their head a life time of experience
And experience only comes with age "no other way"