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^^ This.I'd consider myself friendly, not flirty. I agree with @Gary O' an obsessive flirt is a turn off.
^^ This.I'd consider myself friendly, not flirty. I agree with @Gary O' an obsessive flirt is a turn off.
I like the phrase "Playful banter", it suites me.According to all the definitions I've been able to find, plus my own understanding of the word, flirting is not the same thing as playful banter. We all engage in playful banter all the time, with the people at work, social friends, etc. That's not flirting. I think it has to have a sexual aspect to it.
Damn, I missed it.Best post for a long time. L.O.L.
Ooooo......someone didn't get their fiber today.And your point being?
He was caught with his pants down.
Are you trying to insinuate that there’s some type of connection?
What exactly are you suggesting?
You act like I’m trying to be a poster girl for infidelity.
Nothing like a disgruntled man whose been cheated on.
Well you can BITE ME too.
Post #30. Black humor.Damn, I missed it.
Actually win yes I’ve had plenty of fibre today thanks.Exactly the words of Bill Clinton when he was asked what went on in the Oval Office with Monica.
Comparing THIS ‘inappropriate banter’ to my joking around on a forum is ridiculous.Ooooo......someone didn't get their fiber today.
I merely quoted Billy boy who said in his deposition "There was some inappropriate banter."
Yes. Mother Nature wired them to think that way.Sure and men have been conditioned to spread their seeds wide and far.
Precisely. My point being that many men act on it even after marriage. In my opinion I view men as being more flirtatious than woman.Yes. Mother Nature wired them to think that way.
Depends on who you ran over with the lawn-mower.Too funny! Does it count if drove drunk a loooooong time ago? And then went home and mowed the lawn...
An eye thing?I think flirting is more an eye thing than a word or a motion.
Yes, Keesha, an eye thing. You misunderstand. It's what the flirter does with their eye. The look. Wholesome, friendly banter or gesture becomes flirting when the flirter looks directly into the eye of the flirtee and holds the look a second too long.An eye thing?
So noticing an attractive person is considered flirting?
If that’s the case then everyone’s guilty of flirting unless they’re blind. I wonder how blind people flirt?
The dictionary definition states that people flirt in hopes of a romantic relationship. That certainly clears things up.
Yes! That’s the subtle art of flirtation. I do understand what you are saying and appreciate the explanation. ❤Yes, Keesha, an eye thing. You misunderstand. It's what the flirter does with their eye. The look. Wholesome, friendly banter or gesture becomes flirting when the flirter looks directly into the eye of the flirtee and holds the look a second too long.
So glad to know that you know the difference. I was starting to despair with what women have to put up with.Here's the thing. If the way you relate to others causes pain, resentment or other issues in your life or your marriage, then it's a problem. Otherwise, it's not.
Last summer hubby and I were at an airport counter when a gentleman at least ten years my senior came out from behind the counter, giving me a big wink as he did so. I smiled and said, "Sir, you just made my day. It's been a long time since a stranger winked at me!"
He smiled and said, "You just made mine, too! Can I give you a hug?" I nodded and he gave me a brief brotherly type hug. It was a lovely moment.
After we walked away from the counter my husband looked at me and said, "Have I ever told you how much I love you?" Another hug.
My husband and I are very clear about my flirting.
p.s. Gents, just in case nobody ever told you this, women know the difference between an affectionate hug and one where they're being felt up. The first is welcome. The second is offensive.
There's plenty of online flirting (or telephone flirting, etc.) that has no eye contact whatsoever.Yes, Keesha, an eye thing. You misunderstand. It's what the flirter does with their eye. The look. Wholesome, friendly banter or gesture becomes flirting when the flirter looks directly into the eye of the flirtee and holds the look a second too long.
There isn't an adult alive who hasn't felt this kind of lust.Matthew 5: 27-28