I started out with the last name of Smith, then it was changed when I was two to Adams....I've thought about changing it again to Wolf, but now I'm so old it doesn't matter. My middle name started out as Jack, but my mother hated my dad so much she changed it the Jay. Us kids were too old to change our last name to her third husband's. He's only 9 years older than me, so no way I could consider him a father. He's 9 year younger than my mom, so he is taking care of her in her old age...she's 82 and just had her lady bits removed....ovarian cancer. He's had triple bypass, and prostate cancer. Mom seems to have survived, but still has more chemo....Life is like a doorknob, everybody gets a turn...I think I may go before mom, because God don't want her and the devil is afraid she'll take over.