fmdog44
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- Houston, Texas
No. I'm way too shy.
I laugh enough at what I seeYou should listen to yourself, Gary. You're pretty funny!
y'know yer eggin' me on, right?You are to us Gary, long may that be the case......:bigwink:
I've lived by myself for a while now. I had three cats. But one by one, they went. When Fuzzybuddy passed, I was going to get another cat, or 2. But then, my health isn't that great. I'm 71. I can't be lugging 25 lb. bags of litter a round. I'm getting hard of hearing-the TV is super loud. Should I subject an animal to that? So I decided not to get a pet. And then I started to talk to my self-a lot. Do you talk to yourself?
The way I look at it is this...those people who have wronged you are still winning because they are still eating up your precious time and energy, taking up space inside your heart and mind that you could be filling with something worthwhile that brings you joy. They are still robbing you of your peace. Don't give them that satisfaction. Just be glad you're not them. Pray for them even. But don't join them in being a "bitch" and "mud slinger". Rise above them. You're better than they are.I talk to myself a lot. If I think of people who have wronged me, my mind goes crazy thinking of things I could have said to that person. I am passive and let people walk all over me. But I am getting cranky in my old age and do sling the mud back. Eventually I know I will quit talking to myself, if I just keep being assertive. A # 1 BITCH.
Yes, and I also talk to my cats all the time. They never answer me, aside from the obligatory "Meow," but if any human being ever heard me they'd send for the proverbial "Men in the White Coats."
I talk to my cats ALL the time, but it's mostly compliments, "You are soooo cute!" They never return the compliment, though.