I would have felt the same Sunny. Suffering does not make all people better. Sometimes it breaks them and makes them much worse. If we want the world to be a better place, we need to heal and educate and offer opportunity not judgement and pain. How could our creator do less?If I had taken that course at the theological college, I would have gone ballistic when presented with that theory. It sounds an awful lot like human rationalization of someone else's cruelty, when one is helpless to do anything about it anyway. Call it the "I'm only punishing you for your own good" theory.
So, our loving Father is beating us with a leather strap because it feels so good when he stops? Or because it will toughen us up and help us to deal with all the other suffering in store for us?
How would we feel about a human boss, leader, head of state, religious figure, whatever, who behaved like that?
And what would have been so bad about a painless childbirth anyway. This just shows the bible was written by men.