So I have a question.
As a believer, does your belief affect how you feel or think about a non-believer?
And as a non-believer, does your conviction affect how you feel or think of a believer?
To address this myself, I was really only confronted with overt religiosity when I loved to the US. So many Americans believe in God, that I was confronted by my own beliefs far more often than I ever was in the UK. I recall going to church for a Christmas ceremony with someone close to me. It was a catholic ceremony, and they all went up for their bread and wine. Me? I remained seated. I was very much the odd one out.
I never thought less of believers, but I did feel apart from them. That no matter what my relationship with them was, I knew my disbelief bothered them, and that it put up a trip wire in our relationship. But while you can adjust and change, you can't invent a belief, so I had no solution.
Still, my reality is that intellectually, I can't fathom a God. When meeting people that do, there's a jarring difference. Of course, this only manifests when the topic, or some related topic, occurs. In every day activities, it's neither here nor there. I'm just one of the mob.
When I think that believers think I'm going to hell - whatever that means to them - I'm curious. Does it affect every interaction with them, or only some?