If you were tired of living alone, which would you prefer, a husband/wife, or a roommate?

Interesting topic. Does a title or license guarantee a relationship? Does it insure that when times are hard you will both work it out, because you have a title or a license? No! you either work it out because you love each other or you need each other which is the same, when you think about it.
Life is difficult, hard and there are times when you think that all your wows are because of your partner. A different partner would make it all different. Sound familiar? Got news for you, it's not your partner......it's you. You are not who you think you are. Go search for the answer and you will end up with the same type as you had before. So we are back to trying to understand who YOU are.
Most marriages that are good is because both partners recognize and understand that both have sacrificed for the other and that they have each others back. Something common to veterans which it is why they remember their service so vividly.
Sex is sex, romance is nice and something to embrace. But a marriage is not a license or title. It is a bound that defies explanation in the common understanding. There is nothing pure in a fifty year relationship for example. There are mistakes, there are indiscretions, there are mistakes, yet two continue through it all, why?
Call it quits! start over. Don't need this sh_t!
Then you end up with someone just like the one you left.
Or As I said, you look at yourself.
Just something to think about
 

fuzzybuddy said:
If you were tired of living alone, which would you prefer, a husband/wife, or a roommate?
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That is a very interesting question and I have no idea. Maybe a room mate male or female with a sense of humor. I have no illusions about myself and my appeal to women at my age. Maybe someone to garden and try recipes with would be nice and all animals welcome of course.
 
I recently ran into someone who moved into an affordable low income senior hotel type building. Nice rooms and good food. He loves it. I can see something like that but not sharing my own living space with anyone. Not a chance. Nope.
 
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